Ok I've just got into a relationship and I'm 16 so I guess this will explain the post, been with my GF a week now and we haven't had sex as of yet, shes not a virgin.

Shes meant to be coming over to mine on saturday and no-one is in so I reckon this is the right time. She was over the other day and my mum wasn't in the house and I tried to escalate but she wasn't having it, something tells me that she either didn't know my intentions or that she was thinking my mum could come home at any time.

Anyway I have one condom left at mine and I know shes got loads, do I text her later and say.. when you come over tomorrow bring some condoms?

Also I need some large or XL ones lol so do I add that in there?

And will she just assume that we're going to be having sex when she comes over? and if so is this a bad thing?

Thanks.. Totti

this is a bad thing she will think the only reason you want her to come over is to have sex, just go buy some or be happy that one will be enough.

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Oh lol fair enough if thats the case, I feel kinda put out lol

Ya, you have to buy your own. Its the cost of sex. The only way I would ever consider asking her to bring some is if she asks if I have any. In that case you can say, no, bring some. But even still, you should always be prepared and have your own.

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Asking her to bring condoms around to your house would be like inviting her over for dinner and then asking her to bring the food (although it would be acceptable for her to meet you half way and bring dessert).

Screw it, tell her to bring cake!!

I've eaten a meal with every woman I've ever dated but I've not had sex with any of them. Cake > Condoms.

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Lol well im not holding my hopes up to have sex with her today, thats even if she comes over... i've learnt not to look forward to things like this as something always happens to make it go wrong. So the way I see it she isn't even coming over and we're never going to have sex lol.

Dude it made me laugh a bit. You shouldn't tell her to bring that thing. It's your job to do that. And with one left it can be a pain in the ass, why? Because, sometimes the last one screws up! For example: you fail to put it on or you put it wrong or you scratch it with your fingernail, you know, strang things happen. So buy some! Always have at least 3 with you, i have

Haha, i say go for it my man. Why should you have to buy more condoms when she already has a bunch? I mean, she has them for a reason, no? I would just say something like "Hey, I'm really excited for our date on Saturday... btw, you know I'm expecting YOU to bring the condoms, right? lol"

Trust me.

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always have condoms.

Put a pair or more in your jacket, in your car, keep some near the bed, maybe other places, but just make sure you always have them easily available.


as a PUA you should be prepared for sex at any time.

and it's your responsibility that the sex is safe.

Ay man, the main problem I see here is not who brings the condoms. Its the implication that you are expecting to get laid that can fuck things up. Thats why things tend not no happen when you expect them to- like you said.

My last fling even ASKED ME- if I had any condoms and we briefly talked about it and sex in a playful way, because the next day was a scenario similar to yours where there was a time and place where it seemed like a great idea.

That girl contemplated and overanalyzed the whole thing so much that by the next morning she was texting me that we couldnt even show any affection towards each other. I was like wtf crazy bitch and only later did i realize that i should have never made her feel like sex was expected.

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Ohh I see what you mean.. yeahh when I expect it to happen it never does!
Well now I'm not expecting anything lol.

Well you can expect it, and certainly be prepared, but dont get your hopes up too high. The trick is to convey to her- that you dont expect anything.

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The trick is to convey that you want sex, without actually talking about it.
It's a pretty simple GWM technique. Think sexually, act sexually, be sexual, but dont ever talk about sex.

But I also feel like you may lack a tid tad experience on how to turn a girl on, since you said she didn't bite on your previous attempts. Try gentle touching and gentle kisses. She'll grab your dick when she wants it.

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Thanks Beschatten, yeahh my own trick is not to plan when it is going to happen lol

We'll see how it goes.. lets just wait and see I'll update appropriately