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| cupid | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 2:17 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:51 pm Posts: 251 | | How do you open convos with girls sitting next to me or around me in college classes. I have 700 students in my one class and i want to use that to my advantage _________________ "Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"
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| Fedster | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 2:31 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Sun Jan 25, 2009 6:16 pm Posts: 75 Location: Wonderland |
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| smartass | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 3:03 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Zealot |  | Joined: Mon Sep 29, 2008 4:53 am Posts: 303 | | lol... one of my sticking points is opening in class. You can't run game if it's a small glass. So you have to vibe or go natural... plus if you fuck up, you get the nice awkward joy of sitting next to those people for the rest of the semester... LOL probably not as big a deal in a 700 person class tho.
my advice - find some topic, figure out what you're going to say ahead of time, and go for it. Have at least 5 minutes worth of "natural" conversation ready. _________________ "A man is but the product of his thoughts, what he thinks, he becomes." - Mohandas Gandhi
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| cursive | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 4:26 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Tue Feb 24, 2009 10:12 am Posts: 47 Location: Melbourne, Australia | | yeah i struggle with this to, but only on one specific girl. easy to talk to her but in class it seems harder because she always wants to focus on her work. maybe ask her something class related as its a situational topic. or even ask for her opinion if she thinks the teacher looks like a frog or whatever. just do it, once youve broken the opener its easy.
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| Gifted1ne | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 4:43 am | |
| Offline | | Member of MPUA Forum | Joined: Fri Jan 02, 2009 7:31 am Posts: 129 Location: Colorado | | Easiest thing you can do if class is boring play tic-tac toe and conversate over that. I remember I came late to class for like a week and a girl opened me. As well as when your at a parties alot of girls will say arent you in one of my classes, instant IOI.
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| chriscalo123 | PostPosted: Wed Mar 18, 2009 5:57 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Oct 06, 2008 11:07 pm Posts: 37 Website: http://www.artofseductions.com | | The best thing to use in class is situational openers. There's so much stuff happening (from the teacher being boring, to a comment on a certain topic)
The only thing you need to watch out for is... Some people actually go to class to learn and listen. If there's a lecture and you start to people, they might brush you off because they want to listen.
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| bot | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 1:19 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Mar 02, 2009 3:14 pm Posts: 69 Website: http://www.justincaron.com Location: Canada | | One thing that has given me great success is just being aware of who is sitting close to you. You naturally find yourself drawn to people you want to meet or want to talk to.
If there is a girl that is always very close to you, its a subtle IOI for you to open her.
Worst case scenario in a 700 person class, she brushes you off and you sit somewhere else. If you can deal with that, opening shouldnt be a problem _________________ no risk, no reward
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| deviated rationality | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 5:14 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:53 pm Posts: 83 AOL: shaidofgrey Location: South Jersey | | I actually stumbled into the best solution. Find out who the "hot" guy is. Talk him up, make HIM laugh. But dont really laugh at anything he says. Always include others after breaking him down and then get eye contact with her. After a little bit of creating curiosity in her, pull her in some how. ALWAYS speak loudly for the whole class to have no problem when talking to the teacher, which you should also do a lot. From there, sarge the teacher some how. Once you have made her/him laugh, youre golden to the entire class.
I had my sociology teacher walk out of the room for 5 minutes cause she was laughing so hard at how I "sprayed my testosterone all over the room" when I walked in (refering to some assholes that just go and act like a jock and thinking they are bad ass, and how chicks respond.) I kid you not, I had 4 numbers that class, and the hottest one opened me on the last day and the rest is history.
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| cupid | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:08 am | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:51 pm Posts: 251 | | damn son thats good stuff!
is there any good ideas to open a close by girl tho cuz for a 700 student class it will be hard to get the whole class on this _________________ "Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"
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| tancredo | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 6:31 am | |
| Offline | | New to MPUA Forum | Joined: Thu Mar 19, 2009 5:40 am Posts: 5 | | i think ,you should better say your word straightly. mybe like this : hi,i'm XX nice to meet you!" or " hi, i notice your work is hard." and so on .do not think too much!
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| rocky9118 | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 1:32 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast | Joined: Mon Nov 03, 2008 6:18 am Posts: 74 | | one goodway to open upa girl in class..is draw a tic tac toe.. and just handit to her....99% ofthe time it works
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| Dr_Swing | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 2:02 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Tue Mar 17, 2009 8:55 am Posts: 69 Location: Gothenburg, Sweden | | Don't worry mate - classrooms etc. are pretty easy to open in, starting a conversation in class is everyday stuff. Just remember that one of the things that makes a successful pick-up is being able to adapt, talk about something relevant in a funny and intriguing way.
Ask if she got the assignment done, " Is it just me or does Mr. Blank remind you alot of that dateline show?" (Hope you get this bit ^^)
But my personal favourite in terms of classroom openers would have to be "So... You come here often?" *wink*
Just some of my favs. Hope they help!
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| deviated rationality | PostPosted: Thu Mar 19, 2009 4:44 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Enthusiast |  | Joined: Thu Apr 10, 2008 8:53 pm Posts: 83 AOL: shaidofgrey Location: South Jersey | | also, keep in mind, if you do the bit I put up, your not directly gaming her, youre gaming the entire class. If you can lead 700 people, shes going to melt. If you havent done so already, I highly suggest you get a book on body language as well.
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| cupid | PostPosted: Fri Mar 20, 2009 7:17 pm | |
| Offline | | MPUA Forum Addict |  | Joined: Mon Apr 14, 2008 7:51 pm Posts: 251 | | well I dont think I will be able to game all 700 thats really hard, and I dont think i have the confidence or knowings of what to do _________________ "Never be afraid to try something new. Always remember: Amateurs built the ark. Professionals built the Titanic"
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