how do u Strengthen the anchor in the same scenario?

this is great stuff, i really think i could use this in the field, i watched the Derren Brown show a lot and he uses forms of NLP which was amazing sumtimes i really think i should learn this stuff asap

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cool information man!!! I am going to try it out.

Great read, I want to pull the best bit of advice (in my opinion) from it though.
Time your anchors!
This is possibly the biggest mistake people who start NLP make (for PUA or otherwise). It was described perfectly in this post, you want to do it just before the climax.
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Madals

Sorry to bump a relatively old thread but firstly I loved this article, thank you very much.

I'm interested in anchoring the state you mentioned, the butterflies before being asked out, however I want to try it on a girl I'm in a relationship with, so that when I'm with her and I want them to have those feelings again I can trigger the anchor.

Question: How do you strengthen an anchor in the same situation ? Like, if I squeezed both her shoulders say just before she reaches the peak of imagining the 'asking out' scenario, how can I strengthen it ? Obviously by doing the same action, but I can't ask her to imagine the same scenario, 20 seconds after she's just done it ? How would you go about it.

Cheers.

really good thnxs!

After reading this article, I didn't realize I was an actual natural when it comes to anchoring. I just didn't see the signs and recognize the 'queus'. But all of this makes sense. Now if I could just turn back time..hmm...

At any rate, here are some of my anchors that I intuitively use which don't involve props (pens, beer glasses, etc):

1. For visual people, I will smile in a certain way and make sure they see this.
2. For audio people, I would laugh or say something in a certain way.
3. For keni-people, I would touch them somewhere on their body (mostly their upper arm or knee).

Also, I would sometimes use a combitination of all the above at the same time.

Again, good dicussion,

J-Dub

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You need to be a good player if your gonna be successful at the game.

good read bro!

I have a question: Do you need to associate the gesture multiple times for it to create the anchor or 1 time is enough?

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'Does she grab your hand?' F*ck you! I want to grab her mind. If I can
grab her mind, she'll be grabbing whatever I want, any way I want her to." - Ross Jeffries

Almost always, I'd do it multiple times. The more you do it the stronger the anchor becomes.

However, there are some situation where the stimulus is so strong that it may not be needed; the classic PU example is in orgasm. You should always be anchoring her orgasms as it's just too good an opportunity to miss.

If you're touching your shoulder every time you make her happy on the other hand, or for most other mundane states, definitely anchor the feeling multiple times before you fire it.

It also depends on the strength of the anchor itself. Think about some songs that bring back particular memories, or certain smells. These work the same way.