Alright guys so last Wednesday & Thursday I had one girl brush me off( after I tugged on her backpack to get her attention, damnit I hate doing that), another who declined an invitation to go to a movie with me and another who gave me the wrong digits as well as some other school-related shit. Anyway, I am thinking about opening up to the HB who brushed me off by stating that I wished that I had not made her so uncomfortable. If she was not ucomfortable, I think she would have obliged me. Now, this is not a tactic designed to achieve a certain outcome. It is simply letting her know how I feel. It has nothing to do with the fact that she did not call me. I was the one who screwed up and I feel she should know this. I am not looking for any particular response from her. What do you all think? Have you ever made yourself appear vulnerable in the eyes of an HB?

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Call me Sly.
My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.

Dude, you failed her shit test. You let her hold frame when you tugged on her backpack. If Johnny Depp did this, do think she would have blown him off? Trust me, shes not talking to her girlfriends about how you tugged on her backpack... its pretty irrelevant. I mean unless you threw her to the ground in front of a bunch of people, then of course, youre fucked.

As far as 'opening up' to her... I think you can be genuinely apologetic if thats what you mean. Dont be a pussy about it tho. You could say something like "Hey, I didnt realize you were having a bad day the other day when I grabbed your bag. I was just messing around, my bad." Reframe it to make her feel she was out of line, cus it sounds like she was. Also, I feel like this should be in the Newbie section. Hope this helps you tho. After she says its ok, transition to something quickly, as you dont want to dwell on that particular interaction.

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Swoop

Thanks for the tip Swoop. The important thing is going not be apologetic. I am not sorry for doing what I did but I may well have made her uncomfortable, in which case that can be worked on. I have been at this for a while (though only one k-close and no f-closes, yet) and know that this "mistake" is far from fatal. Trust me, everything will be cool when we talk. I will make this seem not at all awkward.

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Call me Sly.
My goal: To become a Pickup Artist in everything but name.

And yeah, This is (still) just the beginning.