I met possibly the sexiest and most glamorous lady (like a movie star) I have ever seen at a party in a bar on New Years Eve.
Got talking to her at the bar. Plenty of time ahead so was too early to try for her phone number. She left early. Later I spotted her downstairs talking to a guy but she wasn't interested in joining group I was in.

Sent her message day later (sort of email through group website) and got reply back a day later - just sort of saying she'll go to group social, probably at end of January. But she didn't so I sent her another message, saying being busy going to events and know some good bars to go to for a drink. No reply.

OK, I hear you all say move on etc. Don't worry I'm not emotional about her, still playing the field.

Here's the interesting bit: I'm convinced she is an escort after discovering what looks like her website. Obscured photos look very like her. Other pieces of information (e.g. where she used to live, &plastic surgery) correspond to info on the website.

My plan:
1. Send her another message through social networking website saying big party on Saturday (there really is ) and I'm going- encourage her to go. Also usual how are you etc, would be good to meet up, when are you free?.

I don't expect a reply to such a message, and also she has not been to any more group events this year.

2. So if no reply, get my visa out and I book an appointment with her. She may well recognize me. So after sex I ask her out. I know from looking at a forum she's on that she has been asked out by punters. So I sort of know to say I don't want a fuck buddy/casual sex. Would be more of a challenge to stimulate her non sexually.

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Been a swinger for 5 years and now going to more normal parties. Read Tony Clink and Neil Strauss's books. Find that they are useful and would like to go further than just chatting ladies up and getting their email addresses.

I feel like both are try hard. She doesn't seem to be making any effort to see you so why are you trying so hard for her? Plus, if she is an escort and then asking her out after you pay for her just doesn't seem like a good idea

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Men fall in love with their eyes. Women fall in love with their ears.

don't ask her when she's free

you tell her when YOU'RE free

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future