...slap yourself in the fucking face for ever wanting a girlfriend. they are evil. you should fuck many, many, many women before even considering a girlfriend, and when you do, slap yourself again for wanting one.

do not give into your pre-programmed emotional needs of wanting a significant other and going home to the same pussy every night.

take the other path, where you fuck many women, until you are no longer happy, and question the purpose of life, and seek other ways to make yourself happy, like finding jesus. or obama.

women are all succubus'. they will never change. unless they are a pua.
you will be emotionally drained, tired, and fucking sick to your stomach with all the drama you deal with a day after a year in with her.

do not let the pussy drive you to commitment. a man should spread his fertile seeds all across the great lands and seven seas. yes, that means fuck in boats.

then maybe settle down with a girl around the age of 50 when youre libido levels go down and you find yourself no longer physically attractive or fit enough to fuck young 20 year old women. and even at the age of 50, thats nearly impossible unless you're obese and suffer from diabetes type 2.

may you all scoff and try to disprove me wrong, but i fucking stand behind anti-monogamy. throughout my many relationships, i finally opened my eyes to realize how shitty they all turned out to be. the honeymoon phase is the woman's trick to decieve you into thinking they are different. do not let your brains be fooled.

random lays with unhappy ending > relationship with unhappy ending.

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So keep trying to get as many orgasms as possible until you get bored of orgasming? I think the point is the find the point where your life is constantly great. Maybe find a good woman who won't get clingy. Ever consider open relationships?

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Sounds a little rough on the whole female gender... I think a lot of guys like to sleep with women, but is there really anything wrong with love ?

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imo love isn't real.. its a four letter word created by women to put your untangible thoughts into something simple. logically.. we agree.. we dont understand those emotions.. theres a word for the mass of chemicals floating threw your skull.. who wouldnt agree with a nice rack snuggle up agaisnt thier chest?

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Making things easy.

There's nothing wrong with having or wanting a girlfriend. Granted, my idea of a 'girlfriend' might be different from mainstream, but basically it's a woman whom I love and enjoy being with above all others.

Granted they will know well beforehand that I am a PUA, and I women will be attracted to me and sleep with me. If they aren't cool with that then oh well. There are no misconceptions when I start hooking up with a girl, and I have no respect for any boy who does lie his way into a girl's pants just for some poon.

What's so wrong with having a relationship, and then a breakup? Really? The 'bad' emotions like sadness give contrast to the good ones. Nothing wrong with that. Denying yourself to feel something is sociopathic. Eventually, all that 'not feeling' will catch up and lead to a breakdown.

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do ur a friggen moron. what are the chances of you finding a sane marriage-material woman that is older than 40 AND single? slim to none dude. if they are that old and single, its for a good reason. ur whole post is pretty misguided

did you ever stop and think that the problem with your relationships is YOU???

(Writing this post while slapping myself )

Girlfriends can be a waste of time. I get pissed off with girls who want you to lay in bed and cuddle them all weekend and watch gay movies.

I dunno about everyone else but my time is precious and I want to get to where I want to be in life (I make drum and bass, I want to get my tunes released). Girls just seem to get in the way.

But hey there's always the chance that I meet a really cool girl but she would have to fit into the following criteria:

1. Must like drum and bass
2. Must like surfing
3. Must like riding motorbikes
4. Must like Blink 182
5. Must like shooting
6. Must like chilling out
7. Must like hitch hiking
8. Must like drinking beer
9. Must like excitement
10. Must like camping and sleeping in swags
11. Must like hiking
12. Must not want anything, eg. house, car, clothes, money
13. Must like questioning life

And what about relationships with happy endings?

Do they not happen....??

Succubi



...btw...whats wrong with the quote button?

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lol.

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*cough* did you mean to use a double negative *cough*

Each to their own, I don't agree with your post 100% but I also wouldn't make out with my... wait, you said to drop that one

Seriously though, the only real issue I have with what you said is the way you are, in my mind, being just as naive as the people who you feel are cutting themselves short by only looking for a relationship. Personally, I never see a women and think "WOW, I want her to be my next girlfriend" and personally I don't think anyone should look for a girlfriend off the bat.
Meet someone new who you like and get along with
You and said person spend some time together and still get on/dont get on.
You and said person then either keep spending more and more time together or you go your separate ways.
You will keep seeing each other more and more until you either part ways or you don't, normally at some point one of you will start thinking about a relationship and have that conversation.

At that point if you still enjoy being with each other and you are both still emotionally and physically satisfied then personally I feel if you don't honestly think about a relationship your cutting yourself short just as much as you would be if you entered into one without any thought!

I think there is a lot of space to "just see what happens" and having an attitude of having (or not having) a relationship at that stage is foolish. You cant find what you really want if you walk around with your eye's shut.

Madals

k thnx for the engrish tip. i sure be use it 4 future k?

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Good luck with that, Beschatten...we'll see...

Beschatten,

Can you remember a time when you had an epiphany that made you reflect on your entire life in a whole new way? For example, when I first learned about the S&R Value thing, I understood all of the encounters I've had with girls in the past in a whole new way. When I first learned that confident alpha males were more attractive than their less assertive counter-parts because of legitimate evolutionary reasons, I shat bricks as I saw every human being I knew, including myself, in a whole new light.

I know you've had plenty of relationships that appear a certain way when you look back on them right now, but wouldn't it be very possible for there to be some piece of information, some life lesson, or a certain slice of enlightenment out there that would allow you to see your past relationships in a whole new light?

Remember when you first learned something from this community that made you really feel like you knew THE REAL TRUTH about a lie that you were previously fooling yourself to believe? I fooled myself into believing that being a nice guy who supplicates to women would get them to feel attracted to me. Seduction community knowledge made me feel like I knew the real truth behind that shit.

Wouldn't it be very possible for there to be some different perspective out there you haven't exposed yourself to yet that could make you feel "the real truth" about an aspect or two of relationships? Wouldn't it be possible that you could be fooling yourself into believing the wrong thing right now?

If you're believing ALL the right things at this very moment, then why aren't you happy on an enlightened nirvana level right now? We must all submit to the fact that we do not know everything.

Now, onto the tough love:

You sound like a bitter-ass 14 year old rAFC who's just read a PUA ebook after experiencing a bad breakup. You're letting specific personal negative experiences you've had bias the advice you're giving to people in an unhelpful way. Stop whatever you're doing right now to take a deep breath and just breathe, man. Take some time to take a step back from your own mind in order to clear it.

Remember the 10 day positivity challenge you did a while back? Do it again. Except this time it will be for a slightly different reason.

Your tone is very misogynistic. Whether you know it or not, you're unfairly placing blame onto women for things that YOU fucked up, such as neglecting to manage expectations. Ultimately the fault lies in you not clearly identifying who you were and what you wanted in the first place. Man up and take some fucking responsibility. Women are magnificent emotional beauties that love freely and deserve to be loved and appreciated for showering the world with their feminine radiance.

Currently I'm at a point in my life where I "stand behind anti-monogamy" as well, but at least I am open to the fact that I could change my mind later. This is because I am not letting bitterness from misunderstanding cloud my judgment. I am merely accepting my current sexual lifestyle preference rather than resisting anything. You, sir, are resisting something.

All your negativity is essentially coming from that very thing: misunderstanding. Right now, you THINK you clearly understand the nature of woman and of yourself, but you don't. Your ego is actually fooling you by encouraging you to resist discomfort in any and every way you can think of.

And don't forget that old saying, "If you keep doing what you've always done, you'll keep getting what you've always gotten." Just be mindful to the possibility that you may have been approaching relationships with women from the wrong angle your entire life, which would be the reason you can't look back at any of them and just smile from being grateful to have had such wonderful experiences.

I still have high hopes for you, man.
I lol'd

You've got the presence of mind to voice your opinion on something close to you and I applaud you for that. But if sanity ever worked, we'd all be doing the same thing in our lives as programmed by the mass market where you go to school, graduate, get a job, marry your girlfriend and have your child go on scholarship to a top university because of their ability to run like red ants discovered sugar up their ass.

But sanity never works. That's why you discovered the community - the same shit you did every day to find a nice warm place for your erection never got you anywhere. You broke boundaries, you pushed yourself to get better.

The choice of your life's path is two-fold. Down the path you did not take is your other option. If you don't want a girlfriend, you're clearly not interested in having to man up and be responsible for your emotions on a consistent basis.

I'm not knocking you, just reminding you that the reason we're all here is to improve ourselves - and being as insular to women as you're proposing is the complete opposite of the values this community stands for and upholds.

When you think of all our aspirations in life, the boy truly is the father of the man