i try to keep off as much as i can about these topics. schools. what are you studying . what do you want to be. ..... i think that its too formal what do you guys think. ..........

also at school. when you are approaching and opening. i usually start by i have seen you somewhere , or just ask for a pen or something of that nature out of blue and then slowly initiate conversation.....

when you meet up a girl from school .. how do you go from talking about studies to other informal stuff like ewhat she does for fun //

Try to avoid the AFC fluff questions. Get her to qualify herself to you. "What makes you interesting outside of this institution that would make me want to get to know you better?" or "What is the craziest thing you have ever done with another student at this place?" If she answers either of those 2 it's an IOI, then use her answers to make hoops to jump through and collect you, the prize. "Oh really, you do _____, that sounds kinda interesting, lets hangout sometime and you can teach me how to be a pro." In other words flirt with her don't give her a interview every interaction and try to kino as well.

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No topics are boring, aslong as you talk about in an interesting way. Don't keep off such topics (as it will be something you have in common and a great way to build rapport), but present them in a new and exciting way.

BAD: "So.. do you like going to school?"
GOOD: "Which teacher do you consider to be the sexiest?"

When it comes to changing subject, just change the subject! There is no step-to-step way of running from one subject to the other, just throw out: "Hey, if you could wake up anyplace in the whole world tomorrow, where would you like to wake up?" (or whatever).

This great post about pacing&leading might help:

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yeah, try to talk about anything exciting. Formal school stuff would be boring, not that it's bad stuff to know about them. If the topic does come up, dont forget her answers.