Okay so heres the deal. I met this girl at an NA meeting about four days ago, we got along pretty well she gave me her number. So today I called her and we talked for about 15 minutes laughed and it was all good, we made plans to get together friday.

That was around 4pm, I went to work and got home at about 10:30pm, one of my roommates looked on the caller ID and this chick had tried to call me once at 530 and again at 10:25. So I was gonna call back and one of my other roommates was by his truck talking on the house phone. This fucker never talks on the house phone, so I called the chick back from my buddies cell phone and she's like "yeah I've tried calling you I'm on the phone with one of your roommates right now, hold on just once sec so I can..." and I kinda cut her off I was like "nah its cool, finish up I'll talk to you later...see ya" and I hung up.

So the hater roommate said some shit like "ohh I talked to her for a little while heres the phone if you wanna call her back we talked recovery for a little while.." I was like whatever, I didn't call her back.

Then a few mins later she called my friend's cell phone that I called her from, I told him to tell her I'm busy and he told her he'd tell me to call her back and she said to him "just tell him don't bother" So okay.

About 5 mins later she called the house phone again for me and another roommate answered and he gave me the phone. It was real awkward, shes like "yeah I was just talkin to your roommate for a while" I said yeah I know, I seen you called just a bit ago and he was on the house phone so I put two and two together...ect.. I was really short with her and I ended the conversation rather quickly I told her I'm gonna get a shower and I'll call her back and she was like well I'm goin to bed don't worry bout it...and I said okay peace, and ended the call...

Any advice as to what a good aim would be from this point on that might still me ass?

The awkward phone thing I think may have killed it, as I was a little irritated with the situation

You fucked up man. Apparently she had been on the phone with your hater room mate for only 5 mins, not hours. No reason to be pissed with her over it, yet you were and you showed it by being passively aggressive and telling her to finish up the phone conversation with your room mate.

This ones done, but lesson learned hopefully.

And on a different note, being an ex addict myself, dont ever pick up girls at a NA meeting. It can really fuck up your recovery, and no piece of ass is worth that.

Yeah I was kind of thinking the same thing. I was wondering if their is any way to repair the situation.
And NA is a fine place to pick up girls, just not girlfriends. =)

well.. if u apoligise.. uve lost her;

i got it... 5 questions game.. its worth a shot.. tell us how it works ok...

call her up (pretend nothing has gone wrong)..

you: wassup?

HB: dunno not much?

you: waiting for you to call.. im high maintence... but its ok ur cute so ill let you get away with it...

anyway i got an idea.. lets play a game.. there are 2 ends of this game..

you win and you truth and dare me.. and if i get to truth or dare u..

(note: you will win.. dont let her say yes or know just go into it by explaining how the rules world etc and play).. then if you win you can say dare... and u can say.. i dare you to come ___________ such and such place with me (preferably fun)___

if she says yes ur in.. (think positive)..

now if she wins the game (becuase shes played before).. you can say to her... damm.. i cant believe u won.. (my freind taught me this game yesterday and wouldnt you know beginners luck.. ok now your allowed to ask me out!)..

HB: what!!! (shit test)

PUA: look.. i only hang out with people that like to have fun and take risks... and i thought you were like that.. maybe im wrong its cool... if im not i guess you cant be in my club!

she will definately want to see you!!! rememebr to fight a shit test with a shit test!

tell us how it goes!

i don't really understand....you said what happens if I win and what happens if she wins, but how do you play the game?

This is what happens if she wins.. i told you just then bro:

now if she wins the game ( obviiously becuase shes played before).. you can say to her... damm.. i cant believe u won.. (my freind taught me this game yesterday and wouldnt you know beginners luck.. ok now your allowed to ask me out!)..

HB: what!!! (shit test)

PUA: look.. i only hang out with people that like to have fun and take risks... and i thought you were like that.. maybe im wrong its cool... if im not i guess you cant be in my club!

she will definately want to see you!!! rememebr to fight a shit test with a shit test!

tell us how it goes!


The 5 questions game... look it up on youtube.. and see how it goes.. its best seeing style doing it then me explaining it to you.

i think its called '5 questions game - style PUA' type that in and it should come up!

5 Questions game:
I ask you 5 questions, and you have to lie to all of them. If you answer any of the questions truthfully, I win. If you don't, you win. Simple enough.

1st question: Anything easy. What is your name, for instance.
2nd question: Something else easy.
3rd question: Another easy one.
4th question: Uh... hang on, was that 3 questions or 4? If she answer honestly, she loses. If she cottons and lies, you continue to the 5th.
5th question: Ah, you caught me. You've played this before, haven't you?

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"Plan only what you must and live for the present - for tomorrow everything could change." - Personal Motto.

yeh.. on thats 5th question.. u get really into it.. like DAMMM YOU GOT MEE!!! have you played this game before? (acting sad)

and she will jump around.. and say.. no!!

then you say.. GOtya on the last one!!!

oi let me know how it all goes!