Now it's starting to make sense. It was looking too easy.
I'll try to make the story short.
I met this girl at the mall in a group of friends. I didn't show any interest at the time. Then when I was leaving to go home I gave her a great hug. And she said "We should go out more times." (IOI). I just smiled, said "Yeah!" and turned around.
Then when I arrived at home I added her on a social network (similar to Facebook) by finding her on my friend's profile. I added saying "I met you today at the mall. You don't look dangerous so I'm adding you.".
She accepted and replied that it was nice to meet me. And I started a game. I said that she was only allowed to send me 3 messages at the social network per day, but if she wanted to talk more to me she should give me her MSN, so there she could talk to me for 3 minutes. LOL
She got fuckin' intrigued by this. And everything went smooth.
When I was chatting at the MSN eventually I said "Now you have 3 days to choose 1 day to meet me in person to talk to me for 3 hours."
Then she gave me that speech you see at my first post.
And she was fuckin' intrigued "Why this guy has so little time for me?".
Now this is the method I've been tinkering in my mind that you have to give lots of time constraints and lots of shit tests. So, she feels like she has to win you over every time she talks to you.
On second day of talking at MSN she said that she was a virgin and that she wanted to lose her virginity listening to one song. She sent me the song.
So, we started chatting about music.
And eventually I sub-consciously communicated that I was choosing music to play when she comes to my house, and also that the music she sent me would be on the list.
Now she said that I was seducing her to bed. And I said that it was just her imagination and that I never said anything. And I busted on her saying she would accuse me of seducing her and that I would not put the music she said anymore.
And she came up with this:
"I'll not accuse you of anything. I sent you the best music for sex anyway, and I told you I want to fuck listening to this music. You don't need anything more. lol".
And I passed this by saying "I have to listen more to this music to be sure about that.".
On the third day of MSN talking I decided to test her and playfully said that she should bring some condoms. Now this was an AFC move. I activated her ASD and she asked if I was being serious, because she's been joking all the time.
And I said that I was joking too and busted on her "Don't you have a sense of humor?".
And I said that now I was confused because I didn't know anymore when she was being serious or not. And she said that everything was serious besides her being a virgin.
At night on the third day of MSN talking she came with an excuse that she couldn't come here today because some piece of her broke car arrived and she would have to go get it. Then she proposed that we should meet ealier (in a time that I couldn't) or on another day.
And I said "Ok. So another day.". Even if I could at the time she proposed it was a good move because I acted non-needy and had respect to my own time.
She probably gone desperate that and texted to my phone: "It's a shame about tomorrow... I really wanted to hear you play the guitar...
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Now I'm thinking about replying "It's shame that now I can't take you seriously anymore."
But I need some PUA opinion on this.
And then I'll freeze out until she contacts me again, and hopefully next time I F-CLOSE.
CHAT
