Ok i know this girl from school, we have know each oother for awhile but now we just actually started to hangout, last nite i took her out to a cafe then we went to the boardwalk, nothing rly happened except a lil touching and we laughed alot, i didn't spend a dime on her that nite, she is a real tease tho, we talked everything from sex to siblings


So what r the signs that your in a friend zone? And am i inthere?

You are definitely NOT in the friend zone man. Sounds as though things went pretty good. Did she give you any obvious IOI's that you can remember?

Next time you go out do a bit more Kino, it's all about the escalation, and making sexual tension, If you don't make a move you will be in the friend zone. Not like that is a terrible thing, I just pretty much figured out a great way to get out of any of those kinds of situations.

Hope this helped I kinda went off on a tangent.

Dude tease's are a good way to up your game frame work.
I believe it to be a good sign of the topics of conversation. If she's talking about sex with you id see that as a sign she's testing what you say and your reactions.
There has been people around me who seem to flirt with the person who isnt giving them the attention, so what id do is not be an arsehole but try not to flirt an see if she reacts. do that for a few days and invite her out again then up the kino, she will see theres a difference and in her mind which one will she prefer, a colder reception, or the warm freindly presence of a Mother-fuckin PUA.

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well did she tell you stories of guys she fucked? or did she say that she likes it when guys put it in her butt? if it's the former ur gettin in the friend zone or she's an idiot. whens the ext time ur gonna chill together and what are you 2 going to do? tell her u wanna go do something u kno she doesnt really like too much.. if she says yeah then she'd doing it cause she wants ur attention if she says no then ur fucked.

no she didn't tell me of guys she fucked... lol but we did talk about our favorite sex positions and probly ima take her out to the movies, haven't asked her bout it yet, i think she gave me a few IOI's but not rly sure

so first date: lil kino, second date: more kino? i find that easier at a movie theatre
u guys got any better places to go for kino escalation?

Dude, your soooo IN. If your already set on going to the movies its not a terrible date for kino, If your good you'll makeout with her then.

Good kino dates: Dancing, Gym ( I personally love the gym date, I read a study someplace that said when couples work out together the all the feel good endorphins and sweat and stuff makes people extremely attracted toward each other, plus you could go home and shower together ) Ice skating is good too especially if she doesn't know how.

AITE BIG FUCKING PROBLEM........

this is 2 days after i chilled with her:

(lets go with, the girl im trying to get with=A, other girl= B, guy=C)
so A txts me today to come chill with her after school, and im like sure, i go there (its a cafe) and A is sitting there with a friend of mine and this other girl so were talkin and i later find out that A is hooking up with B...... so we sat there for lik an hr or 2 just laughed and chilled, i just acted like i didn't rly care bout them hooking up..... and most of the time A tried to make eye contact with me .... so i tried to get her a lil jealous by flirting a lil with B (stay with me) so A keeps trying to make eye contact while C and B were chatting, i looked at A and broke eye contact with her quickly, and i see from the side of my eye that she is still tryin to get my attention.....

so wtf is goin on????? should i try to get with her or jus giv up on her, and btw she didn't tell me that she was hooking up with him, she mentioned him when we were chillin like he was nothing.......

sounds again like a shit test.
take it that she's interested, just keep your frame dont react when she mentions him, keep DHV'in dont get one-itus even a little, keep flirting a little with her mates. get other targets on th go too dont lie but dont bring them up.

this is still in the bag, wouldnt do cinemas though hate that date. dude walks are good, how i approach dates is instead of cheat sheets etc. i figure what i need to know about a girl if im thinking LTR, so i think i dont want clingy people, (bunny boilers) or superficial people so iask them about camping holidays or stuff basicallly its a real good way off skipping all the fluff bullshit that goes with rapport. an you get to direct it where you want, without been pulled by her. dont look like shes winning approval with any answers either if you like something she says then agree with it, tell her you think the same this will be very important to her, sooner or later she'l forget about C.

happpy hunting.

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Your story is confusing me... You listed B as the other girl, but your target (A) is hooking up with her, then you mentioned that it was a dude... i'm REALLY confused on that one lol

But yeah its a shit test i think. Or even if it isnt, she's more interested in you. Far too many IOI's. Steal her man.

Not in friend zone so STAY OUT OF THE FRIEND ZONE...send some flirty texts to keep the friend zone away ex.."Hye Cutie" Whats up sexxy" random stuff where she knows your spittin game

try doing role play with her:

pretending that you are married, breaking up, divorsed, getting back together with her just for her money, setting her a schedule 7am- 7pm and if she goes out of it.. then shes band for sex for a week but u can go out and sleep with other girls, owning a dog together - but it likes u better.. but its ok because the rabbit like her better.. soo ur jealous.. (make her included.. its about being in a relationship..).. plan a big thing like bonnie and clide bank job (respect TD), planning a shopping date and plan to steal a pair of shoes.. make it huge like u have to get out the door.. do stupid things together.. we are broken up but im still living at home.. and im going to watch dr phil and oprah all day while u work .. and u can come home and .. tell her that ur going to feed her all the time.. and u will play catch together.. but shes hopeless and never can catch soo ur going to tie her up to the tree and play with the dog instead etc...

make it fun...

then after immense kino and flirting and when u get the feeling that its on... then u can turn it sexual.. and be like.. u will be a hopeless kisser.. ud have to go to kissing school.. actually if you went to kissing school what would u grade urself.. she will say.. then grab her hand and say lets find out (keeping eye contact).