I F closed a girl iv wanted to for about 2 years. I know she likes me, because she was saying she wants t know everything about me ect ect
After we had done the deed, she asked me to tell her what was going on with us as we have made out a fair few times before. I said nothing can really happen as she is going traveling soon, so we should just leave it as it is. Then she went all cold and said well thats ok then as theres a lad in college iv been seeing too and we kind of distanced after being close the whole night!

I think she made that up about the other lad at college, what are your thoughts. I actually like this girl and would want to take it further


Thanks in advance guys

It's possible she said that to save face, or it could be true. You know her better than any of us. Your cold read is going to be better than mine.

Is she traveling for a short time or indefinitely? Either way you made your comment and decision. You can undo it if you want but that's your call. Unfortunately, you can't erase your comments only live with them.

If you want to take it further then tell her how you feel as direct as possible.

GOOD LUCK

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Thanks J man, Its a tough one really. I could put it all out there, but I too don't like to loose face aha! I was just wondering if anyone could see that she was just doing that to get at me? Who knows strange beings. I think Im just going to sit it out, what ever happens happens and that?

Keep hitting it until she leaves.

That is what I would do anyways, sounds like you already established that nothing more in terms of a relationship is going to come out of it so she can't get mad at you for not progressing things.

It sounds like she got upset because she felt used or something to that extent. Girls don't exactly like to give it up to someone and not have anything come of it, whether it be attention that they turn away or a relationship that they want. Us guys are a lot better at just maintaining an Fbuddy or a hit and quit.

Thanks Ball dude, I think Im going to go for the latter! As Im not going to lose any sleep over it.

Another thing Iv just remembered, is that she asked me if I had ever been in love... Was this some little test? I told her of course without thinking. But I just told her when and what happened


Peace guys