Ok guys, I've just got together with my girlfriend like a couple of days ago. We're both 16 so we're legal. Shes not a virgin I am.

I told her to come over this week so we can have some 'me and her time' not mentioning sex obviously.

What I would like to know is that how shall I go about having sex with her? I mean shall I just get her to come upstairs and just try make out on the bed with her?

Shes mentioned having sex with me in a subtle way quite a few times.

Should I just say to her come over and we'll have sex? Lol this sounds so stupid but I really wouldn't have a clue what to say because this is my first serious relationship.

Haha, I almost started this sentence with "In case you were asleep all through high school ..." until I realized you are actually IN high school

Tell her to come over and watch a movie with you. She'll know what's up.

Your boy,
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Hahaa true true.

But I mean obviously she'll know whats up, so I guess we just go from making out to foreplay on my bed

Sounds alright

Anyone else?

I lost my virginity few months ago when I was 16 at almost the same way (she wasn't my girlfriend, I dated her for it once and haven't talk to her since).
I agree with 870.

Watch a movie together. Make sure that you sit next to each other and cuddle.
After a while start making out, I love to kiss her neck and ear and than move to the french kiss.
Make out with her and than it's up to you and her

Not that, it's better in general not to verbalise it .

Basically all you have to do is get her in the bedroom then start making out with her. It probably seems all hazy and directionless because you're a virgin. I remember when I was a virgin the first time I layed a girl at 15 in a field I was like trying to find her hole etc. It's a bit like kissing. There is no 'procedure'. You just go with the mood and 'do it'.

You can do the movie thing if you want but personally I think there's no need. That's good for plausible deniability, but since you two are official you can just go caveman on her. Doing the movie thing will only build up your nerves and you won't know when to awkwardly move closer.

Basically get her up to the bedroom with some excuse like you want to show her your cologne collection or your new tie or something stupid like that (a movie is a lot of time to pay for just to get her up to your room), then show her whatever it is whilst holding her waist. From there you can either give her the bedroom stare and just go in for the kiss, or steadily escalate kino until you kiss.

From making out and groping each other it's easytime to lay her. Just throw her onto the bed and start making out on top of her and escalating, rubbing her pussy etc etc. You know the rest. Make sure to stock up on Johnny's.

You may find it awkward or may not be able to find a way to get right to it. If this is the case you really just have to break through the ice and 'do it'. She will thank you for it. She wants you to lay her, not the other way. So make sure you lead and man up

Have fun!

Hahaa Rafiel your crudeness makes me laugh lol yeah thanks a lot for your help guys good techniques

You laid a girl in the field? Good man haha

I'm deffo going to man up, I've had sooo many opportunites so far and haven't bothered I'll let you know how it goes ok?