Ok. Im at sixth form college, and i currently have an ltr (i would prefer MLTRs, but thats not really reasonable at school). There is this girl, who is in one of my classes, and i am really interested in. Problem is she is in a completely different social circle (naturally, the one filled with all the popular attractive, yet not very interesting girls).


I would really like to keep gaming her so that when i leave my current LTR i can move onto her, but seeing as she is in a completely different circle i dont see how this would be possible. We talk in our class, but not outside of it. Also i dont want to get LJBFed when i try to make a move on her when i leave my current LTR. Any suggestions?

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#1... you win the prizefor best sig...i like ur mentality...
#2...i have no fuckin clue what LJBFed means...spell that shit out kid!
#3...i find that popular attractive women can be very interesting...
#4...i would give her sexual remarks to let her know i was interested... but @ the same time just remain friendly and not really act on it if you dont want to cheat on your girl... it really depends what social circle you are in?

2.By LJBFed i mean "lets just be friends" as in, when i come to actually wanting to game her she turns around and says she doesnt want anything more than friendship.

3. Lol i know they are interesting in that they are hot and fun to game, but i mean they are not the type to be in a relationship with because they just are not very interesting people

4. My social circle is mainly based around me and my girl actually. There is another couple who i am very close to aswell, and everyone else are just friends of ours. another problem is that cheating on her would be very bad for the circle. So im kinda stuck :S

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Lumpy.....school based "game" is all about "who you know". You need to get into her social circle. One of the dynamics of "the popular crowd" is that they rarely date outside the group because in most cases it would be seen as dating someone "inferior".

You mission is to "inflitrate" her social circle. Become an integral part of it, and then you can go for the throat.

If you go around thinking people arent "interesting".....

She's in a social group whose dynamics revolves around pretty shallow stuff peer pressure and social proof, nobody is interesting because nobody else is.

Pluralistic ignorance
"Groups all have norms of attitude and behavior which are shared and which help form the identity of the group. Adopting these norms, even if you do not agree with them, is a part of the individual sacrifice that people accept as a price of group membership. "


Its more than likely there's stuff under the surface that is effectively being self-repressed in order to "fit in".

re:get in her social circle
the other option is to DHV than her social circle but you up against, peer influence, the LV of your own social circle, the LV of your existing gf. social proof. I have no idea how thats possible lol