Just sheer curiosity. Lets all be honest here. I know some of us probably stopped keeping track, We're talking ball park... Also, I am aware that the "labels" may not fit you. Just making an attempt to be fun.

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Thanks Storms and ZEG for a little lowdown on your 'situation.' Its important for newbs and others to see where some of us lye concerning our experiences, if just for reference. I will expound on mine and ask that others give a sentence or two on where they are, if they want.

Lost my Vcard at 17 to my crush, she was a virgin too(she was 16). Now I'm 24. I'm around 30 count. Handful of the girls I actually cared about, or still am friends with, but half have been one night stands. Some hot, 9s, 10s, some not 5s 6s, but most have been cute, 7s, 8s. middle of the road. Only had one serious girlfriend. Maybe 8 FBs. Two threesomes. Date occasionally. Rely on my FBs too much... Could use more discipline. Should sarge way more!

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17 here. Five years of LTRs will do that to you.

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Zero. Virgin pride, represent. 1-5 if you count oral and manual. Bet you didn't expect to find somebody willing to admit that and smile about it.

Interestingly enough, I noticed that in Chief's thread, you mentioned how you've been anti relationship for several years, but that as you approach your late 20's, you've become willing to rethink it. Likewise, in my late 20's, I've become willing to re-think the whole no-sex until marriage thing. I'm still proud of it, but it's time to re-examine certain matters in greater depth.

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i've been pretty lucky so far. honestly i have no clue as to what number i am but i know i had about 10 in 2008. i had a serious relationship in 2007 (slowest year) and 03-06 i had easily about 15-20. in august '02 i lost my vcard to a 16 yr old british chick while i was on vacation in orlando, FL. i was 14 at the time. throughout high school i got laid more than the average guy only about 5 a year though. then i had a serious relationship for about a year and a half. after my relationship ended in 08 i was way off of my game and started from scratch @ getting girls. good thing i had my cousin to help guide me until i came into my own again and now im full steam ahead. so far in '09 im sitting @ 5 and half the time i was floating in the ocean and couldnt get any. my goal for this year is 30... and yeah i can do it. just 3 a month. easy. oh yeah i turn 22 in july.

This is the perfect thread for those who post avatars of themselves with strippers, or better yet those that share their entire photo album with us Talk about some really insecure young boys. Kill your ego. Kill your past. Searching for acceptance from the outside is a one way road to disaster. I have been on that road and I know the pain that it brings.

Goals for fat girls? This place just gets more and more insane. Yes, your master is no longer a man who wears makeup and a furry hat. Now it is the perverse puruit of pleasure for pleasure's sake. Not talking about happiness or joy which are entirely different. Nope. Pleasure is momentary. A massive crash usually accompanies it. That is why Americans find themselves fat, addicted to sex, and searching for answers via Oprah, new religions, or men who wear makeup and furry hats. The term "shallow" comes to mind.

My point? Sex and food are great parts of life. It is making them your master that is the problem!! A healthy attitude towards both. Balance. Not worshipping or obsessing over things. Not letting yourself be defined. Living life in the present.

I can appreciate your perspective. You sound a lot more enlightened then the rest of us. Thanks for sharing.

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I have only actually slept with one person but through turning it down (I don't sleep with people I am not really attracted to) and whiskey dick, I should have got more.

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Once again. Lust and desire are bad!!! They turn things like sex, food, and money into your great enemy. Think about that. If you don't lust after those things you are in control of them. They don't control you. You can enjoy them without being defined by them. People would be thinner, healthier, and happier.

This is why I do not believe in setting goals. I believe in having a direction, but not setting definite goals. You NEVER reach an end in life. Life just keeps rolling. The entire concept of having a goal makes you go against this basic fact of nature. Goals are an end. They are permanent. NOTHING in life is permanent.

The best thing to do is just go out there and live. NEVER let anyone tell you who you are. Hell, never define who you are. Never be a joiner. Always understand that things and especially people are always changing. Do things because you want to do them from your heart. Not because of what it might bring you. You will see how much joy there is out there. You will also attract people to you. Then you can forget about cocky-funny or wearing makeup.

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Dunno if thats a sad fact or a harsh reality, perhaps both. But I never considered myself to be someone who could be comfortable sharing bodily fluids with a club girl high on life and cheap wine. Perhaps I should have.

I had a major part in destroying the only passionate relationship I had, and to rectify my errs for future reference, I have decided to take a more casual attitude on sex! So hopefully, and not just for the sake of it, but for the sake of improving myself and fulfilling my potential (most importantly being happy, 'cos being with someone makes me happy!), I'll be preferring that physical intimacy far more than emotional one for the next few years.

Still prefer long term relationships though...if I can find one..

My tally is 6. Could be more but I will never lower my standards just to make up numbers. It's all about going for the best.

Ok expat. Everyone here knows youre the enlightenment dude who has completely dissolved his ego. If your so satisfied with your life, why are you on here? I can hardly picture Tolle or Adyashanti going around or internet forums telling people they are wrong.

This particular thread was set up so people could see where others are in their sexual histories for sheer reference. It is arbitrary in the grand scheme of things, just like you. I suggest you quit judging what other people are doing, fuck off, and worry about yourself. You don't seem to offer any real advice outside of "Just live your life." That is what every damn person on here is doing. Seriously, some of your post are just ramblings. I get the impression that women are only commodities to you anyways. Remember this recent post? a-foreign-girl-vt41016.html?highlight= How helpful you are! If you my friend are enlightened like you say, I pray I never become enlightened. I bet youre a blast to be around, lol. (Making me flame on my own damn thread, fuck!)

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Plus: Expat, just stop. Your "philosophical" bablings are just that. I bet you can't name the philosopher or even the civilization that defined and advocated "balance." And it just so happens they weren't balanced at all.

Edit: meh, swoop beat me to it

Lost V-card in 2001 I think

Started getting wise to the game around 2006/07 and now I'm into double digits. 11.
Still friends with most of the girls.

Last 2 years have been with constant LTR/FB... so approx 5 girls since I started learning PU, 4 of them FB and one half-assed LTR.


I get sex when I want, and lots of it, so no worries.

As long as your satisfied yourself, I figure, there's no need to worry about numbers.

Cheers

i lost count years ago. if i had to guess how many i f-closed it would be 30-35. i dont remember 1/3 of their names either...