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PostPosted: Thu Mar 05, 2009 4:33 pm 
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Im no way a PUA and ive just discovered the whole theory of the whole PUA thing.

Im intrigued and i'd like opinions on what your main objective of each approach is. Is the aim to get the f-close every time or is it merely to just see how far you can get? Maybe a number or a kiss.
Im interested in the psychological side to it all and the reasons for it, im wondering if it highlights an underlying insecurity and by approaching girls and just seeing how far you can get it builds confidence and eases your insecurities. Im guessing its kind of a hollowness in reality though.

Just thought i'd get some opinions from you all.


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Im no way a PUA and ive just discovered the whole theory of the whole PUA thing.

Im intrigued and i'd like opinions on what your main objective of each approach is. Is the aim to get the f-close every time or is it merely to just see how far you can get? Maybe a number or a kiss.
Im interested in the psychological side to it all and the reasons for it, im wondering if it highlights an underlying insecurity and by approaching girls and just seeing how far you can get it builds confidence and eases your insecurities. Im guessing its kind of a hollowness in reality though.

Just thought i'd get some opinions from you all.

My main objective in every social interaction is to allow both parties desires to be met in the most pleasurable way possible.

I would say that many people approach PU as a means of compensation... Once you begin to truly understand and appreciate the underlying principals behind your interactions though then there is no more need for compensation.


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So once you remove the need for compensation do you also remove the need to game? or does it become an obsession or an addiction in a way that needs to be fed?


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PostPosted: Fri Mar 06, 2009 2:00 am 
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So once you remove the need for compensation do you also remove the need to game? or does it become an obsession or an addiction in a way that needs to be fed?
There have most certainly been people who have become obsessed with the feelings from pick up.

I see it like this, once you could have as much of something you wanted, whenever you wanted and in whatever varieties you wanted... would you feel the need to to use those abilities constantly? Or would you know that there was abundance to be had and you need not worry?

For the average man women may be scarce, the good man has just enough... but for the scarce few, the great, there goes the true abundance. :)


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