I’m posting this based on a few thoughts I’ve had.

I tend to get pissed when I’m clubbing and I see stupid AFC guys approaching women only to crash and burn horribly because they totally lack social skills!

I’m sick of seeing drunk wanna be amogs pulling girls arms just to get them closer in order to force a kiss!

I hate it when I see dumb brats standing at the bar wit their daddys credit card, buying everyone drinks, because this is the only way they know to get attention from women!

And I can’t stand to see RAFCs coming out of their moms basement, dressed in the most outrageous peacocked clothes, pulling lines they’ve memorized from the game or mystery method and as soon as they run out of lines they become paralyzed, I suffer as I watch them.

But strangely, all these guys mentioned above somehow seem to get girls occasionally.
And so I want to ask them, do you feel proud of the way you picked up this girl? How do you think it would feel if you picked her up with pure class, acting like a pro, and with no stupid tricks, without showing off, just pure style!

There are a few, well mannered, well spoken, confident, funny but somewhat cocky, just really classy professional men that will pick up women in a jaw dropping way. These are simply the Pick up artists worthy of the title!

I’ve seen a lot of these men in this forum, I read about a lot of classy successful attempts under the field and lay reports. You all know how it feels, the difference in being a douche and being a professional! It feels good doesn’t it?

Of course we have all been there, we have all acted like a jerk only to get the girl, I was a total AFC myself once, and I did some stupid shit, I said some moronic things and I’ve acted like a fool.

I just feel now that after approaching hundreds of sets, talking to thousands of people men or women, acting like a classy PUA feels so much better. And the results are so much more satisfying!

Don’t just throw negs around, think them through, play with the girls, mix smart and educated conversations with dirty jokes, show your versatility, entertain her friends, you will make the girl think that you are her future husband that just happened to show up at a bar. You can use all your old dusty lines, it doesn’t matter, it is all about the delivery!!

I know that a lot of PUAs in this forum are very classy and they are great PUAs, I bow to you, you are fellow professionals and deserve the respect!
But if you are a newbie or just a jerk by nature, practice your approach, touch up your manners and the way you dress, you can still be cocky funny, you can still neg, you can still pull lines so old they will dust your shirt grey, you can still have one night stands as your only intension, but you can do it with class!
One of the main mottos of a Pick up artist is to “leave them better than you found them” and by picking them up with class you will always leave them better!
And most importantly after have picked up a girl with pure class you will feel like a fucking king!


If you need help getting classier I’m here for you!

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Slywalker

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Totally agree.

I look back on my pickups and notice they come in all different styles and quality. Some are just totally boring. Some of the old ones are so mechanical and choded out. Some are unique and wacky. Others just ran so smoothly.

Picking up girls is one thing, but picking up with ease, enjoyment, dignity and even style is something to really strive for.

The other thing I noticed in myself as I became more proficient was thinking ahead, in the long-term rather than just 'how can i get into this girl's pants'. Now I think if I really want her a few days later, how can I manage future expectations and potential long-term relationships, very early into the pickup.

I agree with what you`re saying. Becoming a savvy PUA takes time! But is well worth it!

Great post Slywalker! I'll admit when I first tried out some material I read and memorized, everything felt kinda fake...predictable and a little boring when it came to meeting women. It didn't take long for me to realize that forcing routines and what not were necessary to number-close. Plus it feels much more satisfactory when you do it your own natural way!

Im kinda on this boat too

whats been bugging me is, how do you think we should open with class?
Im off of the opening for sometime already, I was thinking situational or direct

situational as the name says, its pretty situational
so you guess the approach should be some little routine followed with direct, straight direct, or the goo'ol' indirect... what do you think?

Speaking as an rAFC, I would love to have classy natural game and hopefully in the future I will. However, for me, right now I need to use a few canned openers and canned negs to get me by. Mainly so I can learn what works and why it works. I mean, I tried my own material and... well... that' why I turned to PUA's

So your my stalker! I was beginning to wonder
I totally agree with this post. I think the main reason people get results when they start is because they simply approach so many more women.
Where as before they might have approached 10 women a year, and escalate with 1 they now open 10 women a week and escalate with 1. To them, they are doing better, but really its just because there are people women involved!
They are still only getting 10% of the women they want (fictional number, results may vary ). I person dont view my success by how many women i get with, but how many women out of the ones I am interested in I COULD GET WITH.
To me, this is the real way to gauge if I have still got it and am doing well to maintain and improve (more maintain now, but lets not brag ) and it also prevents two very bad thing (in my opinion) from happening:
1) I don't open every women who i could stand being with just to get more day 2's and more women. I go after women I actually want and don't mess around with ones I am not really interested in.
2) "COULD GET WITH" is important to me. Its very clear to most people who are at least average at this to tell when as long as you don't do anything stupid, you could seal the deal. The reason I measure that rather than actually getting with a women is because it stops me getting with a women simply because "I have to so that I get another point"....

I have always held the "could get with" idea, I know some people will read this and think its an excuse or something, but ah well. To be fair there was a point in my life when I was just opening most women just because I could, to boost my ego and well, just because I could. I was just 15 though and since I have always had the 2nd rule, no harm came to anyone because of it and it was a year before I had any idea PUA existed.

I think if rAFC's specifically judged their progress in the same way I do (even if their percentage was way lower than I started at) they would feel better and less ego involved - therefore more improvement.

Madals

cant agree more slywalker. i tried canned lines when i started out, they arent really for me. i like going with natural flowing conversation and adapting to it. this is going to sound stupid but when im out and had a couple of drinks going into a sarge ive started asking myself, "what would james bond do?" i know that sounds dumb but it works. particularly for me being a university student most girls i interact with are a touch classier themselves. good work keep it up