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I just had this conversation on the phone.
ME: I'm going to the mall on Saturday and you should go too. (Here I say that I'll be there and she should tag along)
HER: haha I should go? (she notices my alpha talking)
ME: Yes.
HER: Then at what time will it be? (she gets interested)
ME: I'll watch a movie at 14:00. (I set the time)
HER: Oh... it's a bad time for me to go out. (She can't)
ME: Anyway, I'll be in the mall the whole day. (I convey that I have lots of stuff to do there)
HER: The whole day!? Doing what? (She wonders what's so good that I'll be doing there. Maybe talking to other girls?)
ME: I'll be walking there and talking to people. Call me to confirm the time. (I confirm it.)
HER: Ok. (She accepts)
One thing I would suggest to you... when you are setting a meeting give her an either or setup... this leaves her virtually unable to say no. an example would be: "I'll be eating lunch at 12:00 and seeing a movie at 19:00 which will one should I expect you for?"
Confident language is a great step down the path to a true Alpha's ethos. Keep it up and soon you will begin to find that secrets that will lead you to the truest success.