Hi everyone!
I'm a frenchie from Paris, and ive encoutered several difficulties at opening girls on the dancefloor.
Im rather short, not the type of guy girls enjoy dancing with, and usually its almost impossible to start gaming them while theyre dancing with tall bodybuilded guys.
How do you manage to get them in another place?

ive heard this line dropped before

you: hey dont most people like to dance to the beat?

I play on the dance floor quite a bit. I have a different way which conveys strong body language and to open from front. Like dead front looking straight into their eyes and then lifting their hand very lightly. But it takes time to convey Alpha male qualities non verbally.

So try this, girls for some stupid reason will always comply to spining. Its crazy they would always spin when ever you take their hand and want them to. So try to approach a girl who is not dancing with tall builders who could kick your ass but instead a girl who is not dancing with anyone in perticular. Approach from FRONT, spin her around and dance with her in front of your target to show that you are having a lot of fun. Be non sexual in your moves w/ the girl and bounce off to another one if you think this one is getting distant. After dancing with 3-4 girls in front of your target lock you eyes with her and you have much better chances of using the same approach on her.

I used to do this while I was still developing a dance floor technique and it opens 9/10 times.

The key is your target should feel that its ok to get touchy fealy with you. And ALWAYS ALWAYS ALWAYS APPROACH FROM THE FRONT, that way you differentiate yourself from 99% of the guys who just slide behind women. And that way you have every girl on the dance floor take notice of you.

You need to be having the most fun, out of everyone in eyesight, on the dance floor. Anything less, and they'll see you as someone that's going to bring them down.

Offer your hand, give them a spin. It's fun, and a really easy way to get a girl to dance with you. Despite what you see, have the girl facing you. AND DON'T FORGET HER FRIEND SHE'S DANCING WITH or you will get AMOG'ed.

_________________
No trees were killed in the sending of this message but a large number of electrons were terribly inconvenienced.

Thanks guys!
I've another question

What are the basic dancing moves in a club? I've never seen a man able to dance correctly with just simple steps and without appearing ridiculous...

Look ridiculous or pay for proper dancing lessons.

The point isn't looking like you're some kind of dance guru, the point os to look like you're having more fun than anyone else (and no matter how stupid you look, not to care what anyone else thinks).

I've never taken a dancing lesson, but I intend to. Not for the club, but because I saw a street violinist in New Olreans when I was there for Mardi Gras, and found myself in awe that there was this dude who totally picked a random girl out of the crowd and tango'ed with her. I wanted to dance, but I felt that my lack of any experience whatsoever would only be distracting from the violinist (who was par-none awesome), and I didn't want to do that.

_________________
No trees were killed in the sending of this message but a large number of electrons were terribly inconvenienced.

Ok, So Club Dancing is different from you know "normal" dancing. They key is to let the girl have a lot of fun doing her steps in your presence/ with you/ ON you. You could just sway from one foot to the other very lightly while she has her arms around you and in the middle just spin her. This is for starters though. KINO escalate while she is enjoying dancing on you. You don't need to be a Dancing Guru or Michael Jackson, ooopppssss... definately not Michael Jackson !!

Yeah you do dude. I break those bitches off like kit kats and let me tell you, how you dance with them is very important in terms of 'dance floor game'. I've had random girls tap my shoulder while I was already dancing with my (at the time, now ex-) girlfriend to tell me how good of a 'dancer' (aka grinder) I am. Women automatically associate a guy who has rhythm and good dance moves to a guy who can fuck well. Even though this isn't real dancing it's still courtship. Usually if I break her off well enough and she is a bit tipsy I end up gettin positive vibes and make out with her. Which basically skips the whole attraction and comfort stages right there on the spot lol. I don't even know their name or where they are from till after lmao.
Last thing you wanna do is be another square who just kinda bops side to side while she works it. Looks totally awkward and doesn't compliment the couple well if one has 10 times the energy of the other. I've seen guys like that before and I've STOLEN their dance partners that way just by leaning in and saying hey when you're done with this square let me show you how a guy can really dance. (Displays dominance, confidence and a bit of cockiness all at once)Instantly makes them want to dance with you, cuz they can feel that youre behind them doing jack shit.

Being a good dancer is no different than the A2 phase i.e. female to male attraction. Being subtle on the dance floor if you are not a good dancer could help you out if you can still display strong body language, maintain eye contact and kino.

As for showing a girl how a "real guy" dances when she is w/ tall well built guys who could kick your ass hhhmmm......you probably don't want to do that if you are a shorter guy, like the guy who posted his question in the first place.

The key to pick up in a disco is DANCING COOL.

There many types of disco, the best ones are the latin music disco where you can make easy sexy movements and aproach very directly to the girl dancing reggaeton.

But the most common are techno-house music disco, where you will need to learn some TECHTONIK basic movements, there are lots of tutorials in youtube. These movements seem to be very complicated when you see them, but the truth is they r fairly simple, so people will think you r a really good dancer.

Girls at just WANT TO HAVE FUN, don't get obsessed with the idea of picking up, just try to dance as cool as you can and to have fun with girls, this way girls you will see you as a cool boy, confident in his movements and they won't think you r just trying to pick up.

Theres a whole variety of techniques to use depending on the situation. If a set you want starts copying your moves or they want to dance with you start dancing with them but don’t grab their hand for at least a minute unless they’ve gone for your hand. Never think just because a woman likes you she wants you to kino straight away, although they often do. Then spin the girl round and let her spin you, follow it up with some kino moves. Grab her right hand and place your right arm just above her waist. Then slowly move in to grind her and if you can k-close her do so, but its best to do this off the dance floor as most girls will not want to k-close you in front of their friends. If she doesn’t want to K-close then try to N-close her.

What i often use is a method to get notice


In order to get noticed on the dance floor you need to be doing a dance which no one else is doing, this could just be gliding or anything which is in any way different to the norm will get you spotted. The more women who spot you the more chance one will approach you or make a move on you. If she’s approached you take your time and don’t allow it to appear they can just dance with you, in some cases like if you need a break make them wait. Its best to build up the situation and then start dancing, give it a least two minutes then grab her hand and kino. So if a group of girls wave you over don’t just comply. There’s nothing wrong with playing hard to get as this helps build up your attraction more. Girls who you don’t fancy will hit on you. Even if you don’t fancy them go along with this unless they’re real low quality and you really cant handle it to build up social proof. Then go for another girl or set.
[/u]

approach with your ass and kinda bump their's or do a hip swing.

if you're dancing in western europe, dont listen to advice from americans. dancing is very culturally different. we dance a hell of a lot closer than the french.

I think you are, right, because half of the behavior listed here will just get me a big slap in the face...

This one is gold.
I am not racist in any way but I have used this one many times.
"You dance like a white girl."-With a smile on your face.
Even if she is white, you will definitely get a reaction

_________________
Join Suave's Secret Society at

http://puadaily.blogspot.com

Yours Truly... Suave