Theres this shy girl that i got attracted to me. Normally, this part is easy and the girls do the work for me. But this girl is shy and i think a little intimidated so i have to do all the work.
What are someways to transition into comfort? i just cant figure it out
The only two ways that i think i can try are:
1. start complimenting her on something about her personality that i actually like, like i am just realizing it and falling for her kind of way
2. Ask her how she feels about something important. Get her to open up and share
This is hard and im stuck, i guess the attraction part comes naturally to me but i dont understand comfort and it feels like the pua books and stuff are geared more toward attraction.