For years I have been so ignorant, I havn't wanted to accept the truth about male-female relationships. I had become annoyed that as a man I am expected to do everything when it comes to meeting and dating new women. It all depends on the man and I was not taking on all the responsibilities that I needed to in order to date the kind of women that I know I deserved. I was not leading, as a man we have to lead.

This gives us all the power though. We are able to choose what girls we pursue and every step along the way depends on us. Women expect us to lead. If you look at it this way it kind of sucks being a women. Rarely do they get the oppurtunity to take the lead. They have to wait for the right guy to come along, rarely if at all will they pursue.

I am coming to the realization that all the success and failure I have had with women was entirely my doing. A lot of times in the past I would be gaming a girl (at least what I thought was game) and things would die down and I would stop trying with that girl. I wasn't taking the necessary steps in order for the girls to become attracted to me. I remember being angry that there must be something wrong with these girls for not liking me.

It's all about accountability, I tried to point the blame on these girls but really I was the one to blame. We have to realize that as men we are responsible for the success or failure that we have with women. So if you can not see that your success with women depends on you then you need to check your ego at the door and realize the truth. Women expect us to lead, that is one of the main things they look for in a man.

If you have read this far please write something, there's got to be something that you can add or an argument that you can raise.