I some how got a hot girl to be my girlfriend i met her through text message and met her in person the other day and she herself said yes i'll be your girlfriend. i need to keep things cool by not being too nice but not too mean. I want to set up rules(indicating i'm the selector) but don't want to be annoying. You know i know you guys can't live the relationship for me but you can give me tips to keep it. i'm meeting her at the movies next week with two of her friends but she said they'll move away when it is time to make out(which i'm scared of because i haven't even had my first kiss so need to know how to do that and when to make the move) she also asked me if she could still hug her guy friends and i said yes as long as that is it and she says the best for me. The only other thing is she also texts me during school every day. and she says hun,byez,love ya when she says good bye i don't know if those are normal but they keep me worried like she is just messing with me so tell me on that please


Now the reward if i like the advice i will try to give you a movie of your choice most that recently came out i can supply and don't worry i'm not picky thank you for your help and no i do not have watchmen

How old are you? Where are you socially compared to her? If this isn't a joke I would just say, be the guy that got her to be your girlfriend.

no need for rewards.

First things first:

No worries there.

She needs ya.

Let me repeat that:

She needs you.

You have the power.

You got a hot chick.... you can get another.

Listen, you still gotta work on your neediness, and thats simple.

When you feel yourself getting too attached, wanting to buy her stuff instead of just being your self, or just agreeing with whatever she says,

STOP

and take about 3 days AWAY from her, no texts nothing.

This is going to set you up as the prize, add mystery, and help you control yourself. If she complains, just let her know you need time to do things by yourself. If she gets worrued that your cheating, hold her.

Stay yourself thats the golden rule.

When comes to kissing, tease her. pull away half way through, smile and go back. keep the tongue down to a minimum and just near the lips no farther. hold her lower back while your doing this.

as for when.... wait for a high point, when the two of you are really connecting, she'll eye your lips or she'll have alot of her body facing towards you and be really happy and interacting. Thats when

If she shows you her wrists...... pull her aside and kiss her.

Just dont make it sudden.

Just make sure thats not the only touch you have, or tha last for the night.

And listen player, do me a favor and don't look before you touch. Just touch.
As for setting rules, treat her like a fat ugly chick when she does something you wouldnt accept. Things you honestly dont want in a relationship. But keep the interaction fun.

And I mean that exactly how I word it.

Then treat her with a touch, kiss, hug etc when she does something you like.




And above all stay who you were.[/quote]

Paying it forward is what makes this forum great.

My only advice is that girls love tongue hockey as much as kids like candy. So remember you have something she desires. Play it smooth with nice slow gentle kino escalation, nuzzling and close that baby down there. Whisper in her ear how amazing her kisses are and how you would love to go somewhere private to continue kissing.

Then come back and let us know how you got on.

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Man I remember that age..and HOLY SHIT do I wish I had this forum back then.

Im by no means a PUA...but for his age I would have to say negative on that.
I think maybe a day..two at the max...three days (especially if she doesent go to his school) will seem really weird and that he is mad/angry at her or does not want to be together.
She will most likely flip out or leave

remember,..school game/club game are totally different.

Its different if a 20 year old girl does not get called for three days..
much different for a 15 year old girl

alright i'll try a day because she is 13 and i had a vison last night that i did it for three days and she broke up with me. always be cautious of dreams but thank you everyone and please continue to give advice. and if you want a movie i will try to send it to you i have no reason to give my brothers a virus or a fake file with spyware

HAha I could not resist saying this
When you were in elementary school she was still in pre-school haha
Although two years is my limit myself

Fuck if you are 15 and she is 13 you are fine
She will most likely have zero experiance so she cannot compare you to anything
Imagine how she will be feeling compared to you