Hey all. Just joined up finally but have lurked for a little while now. I was wondering if anyone had any opinions or advice on my situation?

I've hung out with this girl 2 times so far but things are starting to get a little bit different. The first time we hung out one on one and had a great time with plenty of IOI's and even messed around a bit.

The 2nd "date" we hung out and made dinner at her place (she lives w/ parents) and then ended up calling two of our mutual friends (one is her cousin) and we played drinking games and such. No big deal, it was mainly my idea (perhaps stupid idea?) This was the beginning of the downfall so to speak.

Of course i was getting a bit hammered and having a few AFC moments.. Which include not being the life of the small get together after starting out that way and distancing myself. I guess my vision at the time was she wasn't paying enough attention to me and why did i not keep this one on one. Shame on me.

So she notices and we have a talk and everything seems fine. The party is surrounding around me again. Her mom and a few of her mom's friends are there and i'm being entertaining dancing and singing with them.

Another point i remember my "date" looking thru my phone and she may have read a text i sent to a buddy saying i was having a bad time and wanted to leave. She didn't show signs like it bothered her though so i'm not sure.

Everyone seemed fine the rest of the night. I end up getting a good night makeout session in front of her cousin.

I leave at 5am b/c i am cold and want to sleep better than on the living room floor. I wake up in the morning to a text "thanks for saying goodbye". I explain how i was cold and i was wide awake (playful manner).

Since then i felt i needed to apologize (AFC i know) and she stated that its all the process of getting to know someone and she isn't mad at all. But since this she has been distant and i havent heard much from her.

So should i pretend like everything is normal? Mirror her distance? Ditch her all together? It is weird to me because she seems like she prefers to talk via text rather than phone calls also.

Sorry so long of a first post but any suggestions or analysis is appreciated.