Hey guys, i haven't been on the board for a year or so...

Anyway... my longterm girlfriend of 4 years just lost interest in me.
I made the mistake of trying to pursue her and being to sweet for 2 months.
It just made things worse so I finally had to end it myself because she was treating me with no respect and basically walking all over me..
Anyway now we don't talk AT all.. it's been about a week and i sent her an email but got no reply.

What the hell should i do to re stimulate interest in me and get us back together?

Should I just give it time?
Should I change my myspace picture to me and other girls to employ the jealousy card?
Should i send her a message saying i just wanna be friends?

I'm pretty lost, confused, angry, depressed, and frustrated.

I REALLY loved this girl.

Do something and watch what happens. It doesn't matter what.

This is your life, your experience. You can't be afraid of losing someone if you want to really experience them. Whether she comes, goes, leaves, or stays you'll be okay.

Your life will not end if she leaves. There's 3 billion women out there. Take your pick

David

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"Don't compromise yourself. You're all you've got." ~Janis Joplin

yes very true,
but I want this one back at the moment
I'll still game other ones to try and take my attachment off her.
I got one itis
I read another post and it said to just start gaming her all over?
Should i try this?

man i no how u feel
i was in a 2 year relationship and it ended just shitty, like how yours did
now i know things suck right now but honestly, if she seems over u, it might be time to move on man... its a sign thats saying u need a change
its obviously easier said then done (i no..) but as soon as u start looking at it from that perspective your life becomes less stressful. maybe u will get together maybe u wont but for now just live your life like u want to, make priorities that dont revolve around a single person. this is a time to do things u wanted to do that u maybe couldnt hav

--Ajaz

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dont even think just do it!

i hear ya buddy, i recently broke up with my girlfriend who i dated for 4 months, and you know what she said to me, this relationship isnt a priority to me ne more, kinda a dagger to the heart. In all honesty, regardless of what i say or the other guys here say, the decision lies on you. I love the expression everything happens for a reason, if you stayed with her, it could of blown up in ur face longer down the road. Take it one day at a time, and if its meant to be, then u guys will start talking again. You need no contact from her for awhile, theres a reason why you broke it off, its called a break up for a reason! Im doing no contact, deleted all her pics off my comp, took all her shit threw it in a garbage bag, and im doing fine. Hope it works out for ya bud, good luck.

Shiiit...
So you guys really think starting to game her again wont work?
I literally was a whiny emotional loser for 2 months straight with her. I really thought i was past that point where i needed to play the game on her. I was soo wrong.

Move on dude. Any respect she had for you has gone. NEVER beg a girl to come back to you or by sucking up to her. Show her that you are over her instead by getting back into circulation and gaming as many girls as possible.

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Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it.

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