ok so ive been talking to this girl alot more and just now she asked me again if i have any girls in mind and she kept asking me bout it trying to find out who it was lol idk i hope shes interested i really wanted to say its her but it woulda make it weird if i told her online lol

HB: do you have your eye set on any girls??!
Flexx: there might be a couple girls i like well just see how things goo : )
HB: ok now you have to share
Flexx: idk i said there might be
HB: well who might those girls be?
Flexx: thats a secret : )
HB: COMEOOOON!
HB: u can tell me!
HB: i won't say!
HB: if anything i can help you out
Flexx: im not sure yet i dun even know yet
HB: thats bullshittt lol
Flexx: lol
HB: i know you, you've already got many in mind
HB: jjust share, please??!
Flexx: lol dont worry bout it (name) to be totally honest idk yet
HB: fine
HB: but by friday i'll wana know
HB: like on the way up there while you're thinking about everyone who will be there
HB: you're going to have to text me and tell me
Flexx: haha
Flexx: ok now its my turn to interrogate u on this subject
HB: ooo well gosh i have an ongoing list, i'm up to 20 lol
HB : ...
Flexx: lol
HB : please, i will be getting nooothing this weekend, which i am perfectly fine with
Flexx : how u know u will be getting nothing
HB : because theres a 99.999999% chance (ex bf) won't be hooking up with me
HB : and besides that i'm just a lost cause
Flexx: a lost cause? lol i seriously doubt that
HB: i mean like i've got nothign
HB: but i'm ok with being solo this weekend
HB : lol i keep having to tell myself that,,,
Flexx : im sure there will be someone.....
HB: eh i don't really care
HB: like honestly i'm not going for that reason
HB : i just want to have fun
HB : and i will
HB: so i'm all set
Flexx: i guess
HB: lol
HB: you're going for some booty call
Flexx: lol well see
HB: omg u totally have a girl(s) in mind
Flexx: i dont know yet lol
HB: fine keep lying..
HB: k i gatta go finish homework
HB: i'lll ttyl

and she left really quickly lol idk wat u guys think?

i'm not an expert, but it looks like you shoulda made some kinda move where she was saying how she's a lost cause, When girls do that self pitty shit, it usually means there baiting you to push from my experience.

To me, it looked like all that "come on tell me" was her doing the same thing, & the "I'll help you get her" shit was just there so you wouldnt think she likes you incase you didnt like her back.

but iono, these guys know this shit better than me, so I could be wrong.

haha yeah idk tho i wanna know if i played the whole situation right....and she texted me a little while later saying how she didnt forget but i didnt answer lol idk wat shes talking about

to me it looks like a small fumble, but something you can easily recover later, But Deff. do not want to repeat, cuz it might lead you to the Friend zone

But Again lol, wait for these dudes to respond before you consider your next action if your unsure.

haha thanks for the advice and yeah ill wait some more too

Ok dude, I think it's safe to say she's interested. You're doing fine but Imna's right, if you don't escalate, she will think youre only worthy of friendship, and not worthy to fuck her. Solid frame control tho. You're doing 'open loops' which is something Swingcat teaches... coyly avoiding direct answers of finality in order to prolong intrigue. She wants to "just have fun" which is awesome. Basically means "If the opportunity presents itself, I am down!"

So what do you do? Honestly, from what I can tell, its what you don't do that will determine a good weekend. You are being chill, flirty, funny, confident and coy. Good stuff, keep it up. DO NOT start to pussy around, or question whether or not she likes you, just assume she wants your balls! Don't get needy or clingy, mingle with others and have a blast with everyone, even strangers. You will have to build some social proof because you don't have much right now. Once she sees you are likable by others around you, she will feel you are worthy. Seriously, you must have an abundance mentality tho and not focus on whether or not youre going to get it. It may matter, but get to the head space where it wont be a big deal if it doesnt. Thats the key.

Your attitude should be "Fuck it! I'm a cool dude. Love me or hate me, I don't really care! Lets have some fucking fun!" All smiles, no drama. Build that proof and actually have fun! She asked for it, give it to her

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So Flexx, what happened over the weekend then??

lol i realized that i was dumb for even thinking about getting with this chick because she was still not over her ex boyfriend of like 2 years and he is one of my best friends and trying to do anything with her would look terrible on my part especially cuz tehy got back together so w/e its not a huge loss i dont really care it was one of those positions like if i could get with her awsome if not w/e

Hey Flexx

I understand she's already visited and left but I think there are a few things worth pointing out for future reference:

1) As far as frame control and projecting a confident image goes: in your first conversation you said LOL 5 times, sometimes in the middle of sentences. What exactly is so funny? You know what that's like? That's just like saying UM or UHHHH or Like... I don't know if you're trying to make her think you're a laid back guy but saying stuff like that really takes impact away from anything you say. Consider the following:

Come to my house. I Want to fuck you

Come to my house lol. I want to fuck you lol lol!

One makes you sound like a confident man that knows what he wants and is out to go get it. The other makes you sound like a 16 year old kid that beats off way too often ..

2) Project your sexual state. To understand what this means read stuff by gunwitch method 1 http://www.gunwitch.com/seduction/gwm1.html

3) Some things you absolutely should and should not have said
What in the hell are you doing man?? If you were really alpha you wouldn't give a fuck whether she's seeing someone or not. You're confident and ready to fuck her. Who cares if she's single or not. You're talking like one of the girls now and it's such a waste of energy. In this case less would have been more. YOu should've just stopped talking to her when she said "but by friday i wanna know". What you did say: Message: I'm a nice guy that has no need for my cock.

What you should've said: Eh.. I'd do ya

Message: I'm confident and i just sexually escalated you. You love it.

Don't worry about the social consequences of your actions. Do what your cock tells you to do.

CPT

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