So me and this girl were hanging out, Her boyfriend was in jail.. He's an idiot

She was my first game so i wasn't really expecting anything, a2 went fine.. But we ended up sitting in the car talking for like 5 hours untill 5 am. Is that bad???? So i just thought we were gonna end up being friends. I was doing kino and "Screening" her though. I did the cube routine, And a few other things. She was very amused, "I like your games, tell me more!"

I told her i was tired and left. She than texted me saying

Her- I'm really glad we're friends again"
Me- Yea, I actually had fun. You're kinda good at this.
her- You're just really interesting person and i want to get to know you better"

Two days later, Her and her friend (Boyfriends Sister).. Come out with me and my friend.. We are hanging out in my house... and all goes well in my head.. I give her 1 neg to see if attraction was still there, and she IoI's. So i figure ok i'll keep going
Did the kino test and it worked fine, She kept contact. Did a few compliance tests, Than isolated her outside. Did the peg system and than tought it to her, She was pretty excited. The convo never died down..

--Now is that bad that i left her friend in my room with my friend??---


Anyway, Her friend runs outside and says she has to go home so they have to leave in a hurry. And here we are, I was thinking about kissing her.. But now her Bf's sister is standing there so we just drive them home.
It was just my first time gaming and i didn't pull the trigger fast enough.

She later texted me and said-

Her- Sorry i wasn't more fun. I was just to distracted by how attracted i am to you.
her-I really wanted to kiss you tonight
Her- You should come alone

Than there is a day three. I isolate and kiss close.
Used the following line.

"What do you think the first thing you'd say after you kiss me"
Her-- Idk
"Lets find out"

Very short, i did not give her much. Than pushed her away.
We talk for a while longer, But it is FREEZING, So i tell her we should split.

She ask's for a hug, I turn my back. So she all the way to the door (Good 20 feet). Turns around and walks back for a hug. Than i kiss her again, For a solid 20 seconds.

I than proceeded to leave.

I get a text from her

Her-
Me- What was that for.
Her- I know you like smiles, So i gave you one.
Me- You have a problem with that?
Her-So what did you think???
Me- About tonight?? I had a fun night!
Her- No i mean, About the kiss.
Me- Make you a deal, You tell me than i'll tell you.
Her- I dont want to guess, I just want to know what you thought.
Me- I think i liked it as much as you did.
Her- Yeah because i really liked kissing you, I felt sparks flying!
her-Your a really good kisser.


So the next morning her boyfriend get's out of jail, And now i'm stuck as to what to do... What should i do??? Does it sound like i have any chance??? And if i do, What should i say??


My other questions:

When she texts:
--I really wanted to kiss you tonight.
Wtf do i say to that???

When she asked for a hug, Was it a bad thing that i turned my back?? I didn't walk away.. and i turned back towards her afterwards while she walked away.
I thought that was called a takeaway?

She hasn't said much to me since though.

are we talking about a hb4? or a hb9? give specifics,

personally if i was locked up i would not like someone kissing my girl... so i would in return do the favor of not kissing other peoples girl friends, but as you said it was your first try.... so maybe you got the confidence you needed... now move on,

i do not, i repeat DO NOT advise you to go after a chick with a bf, especially with one that just got out of jail LOL, the reason why you don't go for a hb like that is, so she cheated on her current bf? why are you so different.... once a cheater... you get it

Best of luck

-Dre

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

hb8. I would say, She's smart, Sexy. But yea i understand about the cheating thing. So should i not mention it, Ever again??

And her bf got put in jail for DUI. He's an complete idiot.

But i am just starting so, Please and thankyou for all the advice

haha yea sometimes its not worth it.... i would just move on, atleast you got a 8 on your first try


And of coarse thats what were here for

Best of luck

-Dre

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

if you arent looking for anything serious the might as well see where it goes. but she would just cheat on you too if you started to get feelings.

If anything happens don't get too attached as she'll probably just go back to her ex.

I'm not looking for anything relationship serious. Maybe try to sleep with her.


But what should i act like now that her bf is back... Like i'm still attracted?



Sorry guys i'm learning.. and alot of girls have boyfriends these days : (

I do not advise you to do this....

You have to make decisions that are right for yourself. So that when you look at what is right and what is wrong, you have to make a decision based upon type of person you are trying to become. Now personally I am constantly trying to be the best I can be. Therefore, i have to ask myself the question, of would you rather do something that would set you back on the long run (Going for something immoral) or to lead by example. If you look at the problem no matter what the situation, you will realize that there is only one right answer, and every one knows that to a certain extent.

The only reason im trying to make my point clear, is because this site inst just here for you to get laid, its here for you to realize the decisions that in the past have set you back, and now you must correct them, until it becomes a subconscious level of thinking. (Hence, make you into a real alpha male, not to just act like one).

By going for that HB, you are behaving like an AFC who knows how to imitate a PUA, not a PUA.

But let it be remembered that I don't expect you to realize this yet, you said you were new so I didn't want you to get discourage so I made it simple, but when you get negatively reinforced I had to step out an say something.

Best of luck

-Dre

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

Dre,
I just want to say thank you.. That made absolute sense to me and opened my eyes a bit more.

I do not take what you said offensive, i am new after all. And do need help.

Man can't believe i was stressin over this.