hi, i'm new to the forums, hopefully i can get some help.

I met this girl on myspace, she added me on her friends list and i accepted. we both are 20 years old, soon i'll be 21. To my understanding, she had a 4 year relationship that ended not long ago. So i figured, take it slow.

I tried to be confident and bold, i said "lets go watch a movie" and she went okay. so we watched "push" on friday night at 9:30, which ended at 11. This was our first time meeting up and i think i may have messed it up. Once the movie was over, we both walked outside with barely any convo's during the movie. So I tried to talk a lil bit outside and for some reason, i didnt ask her to go grab a bite and talk a bit more. So basically we left it at that and call it a night.

We haven't spoke for the whole weekend and i tried to contact her last night and talk, she ended up giving me a g2g comment. Ever since, she hasnt spoke to me.

think i lost her? or what should i do next? I dont have her cell number since she claims that she doesn't have a working phone.

PS: i've noticed, on mypsace/aim she keeps having messages saying that she's talking on phone with this guy holland from florida, which is across the country. She and i have so much in common and i'd love to see us hit it off and do well.

Ok you are deff a newb! but that ok because you have come to the right place and every one was a newb at one time or another. For starters a movie is a horrible first date!!!! It is un original, boring, and aquard. When you take a girl out on a first date you should always take her somewhere fun and and interactive! like say rock climings or bowling....I never got the whole movie thing because you dont get to know the person at all and then after not talking for two hours you are expected to start a convo haha

So 1# first dates should always be somwhere fun were things wont get aquard....i.e rock climing, go carts, walk in the park....what ever.

Now it also sounds like you are having trouble talking in person? making convo? the best way to get over this is to start going out more and talking to people....make sure you are hyped and in a good mood and just go meet people....try to pick up and if you dont who gives a fuck? you will get turned down it happens to every one so dont feel bad.

Last I want to say grow some balls....and I mean that in the nicest way possible! haha Never second guess you self! If you wanted to take her to grab some food then you should and you shouldnt have worried about asking her....why would she be on a date with you if she didnt want to be there? Its ok I have been doing this for a little while and somtimes I loose my balls too haha but then I reach back inside and pull them out and move on with my plan! Honestly man confidence is 99% of the game....women want a leader, they wants a guy who knows what he wants and leads her in doing so....once you learn that you will be gold!

As for the girl I would say ignore her and just forget about it....mabey you have a crush on her but there are billions of other women out there! The best line I have ever hear is "There are millions of baby girls being born every day, and every day a million more are turning 18" haha Its kinda a creepy quote but its true....dont settle there are alot of women out there!

Yeah, I agree ^

Ignore the chick, It sounds like you were too timid and that landed you on the wrong end of the momentum, & I think More than likely if she notices confidence and things that put ur value up in a way, while shes alienated from you She'll start trying to contact you again... lol just dont count on it, cuz waiting for her kinda defeats the purpose.

In the words of bigge

"dont chase'em, replace'em"

Fuck that, call her.

"Look, I'm really shy when I first meet someone. Let's grab a bite to eat or get some coffee or something. Point is, I want you to get a chance to really know me."

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