I don't know what to think anymore. I quit my job and moved back in with my parents so I could go to school to become a CNA. The pay is so-so, but the advancement opportunities and the benefits are nice. With this job, I figured I'd have some security. I've been completely wrong in everything I've ever done. I suck so badly at this job. I really am stupid, I just seem to lack any and all common sense, and I can't figure anything out for myself, no matter how basic the task is. My co-workers hate me for being so useless, and I've never been more AFC and insecure in my life at this place. It's like being in high school again. I honestly don't think I can stand another day. And if I quit here, I get to go back to Walmart and never make enough money to support myself. I'm honestly just beginning to think I don't even deserve to ever find a girlfriend just because I'd do nothing but bring her down. Christ I'm fucking sad.

if you keep feeding bad thoughts, you won't come out of this slump. it may sound basic but focus on the good sides, your strengths. nothing is set for ever in life, things always turn around eventually but only if you try to make it happen.

C'mon mate, you must be good at something.

This isn't fucking fmylife.com. This is a site about improvement. How about you stop making things worse by complaining and start doing things to make things better by:
1. Running POSITIVE programs in your head instead of negatives ones like you're doing right now like some whiny emo kid.
2. Start doing a better job at work.

You reap what you sow.

Cheer up pal, I feel down today aswell lol we can be buddies haha, I was feeling lonely earlier and felt like I would never settle down with the right girl and I felt the one who I'm seeing now doesnt even like me simply because she hasnt text me. But OH WELL! Life goes on and things will always get better even if they dont seem so, you need to settle in in your job work hard to get there. Motivate yourself.

DONT FEED YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS! Or you will get fat on negativism!

You just feel like that cause your new to your job.

Just suck it up and stop thinking bad. Keep trying

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Getting the Hang of things

I don't even have any defense against this. I feel like I can never get myself out of bad situations for some reason, and posted this out of sheer frustration. I will lol at the "start doing a better job." If I could just make the choice to not suck I'd have done it back in middle school.

I wonder why so many feel you can talk a guy out of sucking.

To those who offer, "kind words". Think about those in your real life who whine and complain. Think about WHY they do this. They whine and you go, "Ohh . . . you can do it. . . You're a good kid. " (Also think about WHY YOU do this)

People like this really do get a little shot of endorphin by pissing people off. They suck and rob you of your positive energy and you don't even realize it most of the time. If you have anybody like this in your life, do your best to get them the FUCK out of your lives. Really . . . they have nothing or you or even for themselves. A hot girl who whines and complains at least offers up some vagina for your efforts. These guys . . . well, they're not even amusing.

To the OP, go start up your own forum for whiners. Lots of luck.

go buy a book called PSYCHO-CYBERNETICS By: Maxwell Maltz, it will change your life and your situation... Thats a promise!

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Get Girls! www,lockherheart.com

relax man your new to the job, when i am new to a job i screw up lots also and i feel real stupid. but after a week or 2 you will get the hang of it.

Look up "Internal Locus of Control"

I'm sad, you're sad, we're all fucking sad!

I can name 50 people off the top of my head that have it worse than you! My ex for example has probably gone through more in the last 2 years than you will in your entire life! Unlike you she stuck it out and has become THE most spectacular person I know.

Unless you grow yourself a pair of balls things are going to get a hell of a lot worse for you and you're going to be wallowing in a shit pit of self pity for the rest of your life.

god damn it chief every where i go i see those tits LOL

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-Dre

If your going to question me, you better have a theory behind your argument.

"Never be bullied into silence. Never allow yourself to be made a victim. Accept no one's definition of your life; define yourself."
-Harvey Fierstein

dude seriously life's so fucking brilliant just start enjoying it, look at all those girls around u that u can hook up with or just some hobbies! everyone is good at something

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jakslip~

Just stop whining already and be positive. Its easy for me to say this because Im good at just about everything... But I know whiny people, and they bother the hell out of me. You are in a field that is majority women... Use this to your advantage. Ask a hot co-worker to help you out so you stop messing up. Go in every day and say to yourself " today, I will perform better than yesterday, I am new at this... but I will get much better". A new job is just like sarging... you mess up, evaluate, and you correct the problem the next time. chin up... good luck!