Hey guys, advice needed.

Day 1: Kiss close and some grabbing here and there at a club.

Day 2: Disaster

Here are the details. Went to her dorm to watch a movie (Happy Gilmore). Greeted her with a kiss on the cheek. Anyhow, as we watched the movie - first time for me - My stomach started completely FUCKING me. I felt soooo gassy from the sketchy tikka massala wraps i ate for lunch. anyways, twice through the movie i excussed myself to go to take a piss, just so i could let some gas out. Was feeling desperate.

Anyways, back to the sarge. I tryed to mentaly be in the game, but couldn't because my stomach ache was just immense. Throughout the beginning of the movie, there was no kino whatsoever, but she was giving me very strong Eye Contact. So, when in the movie, adam sandler kisses the girl in the ice ring, i say:
"I guess its our turn too" and we make out as well.

No resistance, which i was surprised, because my horrible stomach ache was putting me off my game. I think to a degree the lack of kino was making her sexual tension increase, so that might have saved me.

Anwas, i then kiss her neck and cleavage (for a bit of a tease), and go back to normal making out. From her kissing, i could tell she wasnt too experienced - freshman at Uni. Anyways, after the movie, there was gentle caressing kino, but the truth is I was in no physical state to have sex. I thought, at least keep a sexual frame, so mentioned some sex stories, so to avoid the LJBF bullshit. I was honest and told her I had a huge stomach ache and had to leave home. She said, "hope you sleep well, etc.."

Bad pointers:
-on the good bye, we only kissed in the cheek. MY lack of leadership. I should have left with a good make out session so to keep her wanting more.


Now to business.
I am going to call her within the 1-2 day period, and my goal is to keep sexual tension between us. By no means do I want to appologise for my behaviour so i am going to blame the chicken. Confidence is key. She lives in a city that I visit every other week for a night out, and will move to in the summer.

I am going to call her, first blame the chicken. She will ask me how I recovered, etc...

My plan is to keep the sexual frame by telling her "We need to make up for what the chicken tried to ruin. Lucky you, I know how we can do that."
again, confidence and sexual tension are my desired outcome.

If any one disagrees with this phone call i intend to do, please let me know as soon as possible.

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This is what you should have done. When you first went to the bathroom and knew your body was a no go for the evening, you should have texted a friend to call you in 10-15 minutes with an emergency. I've had to do this to get a SNLs out of my house. Than she would be obligated to see you again and at least finish the movie and kissing that started. Now you are in a position that is no too bad, but could have been better. If you can get another date her, make it great one and keep her wanting more.

as much as your stomach may have been hurting, you still managed to mac her and got so resistance. this means that comfort is established, you just have to build off it.

A mac out session when you left would have been ideal, but you still got the idea across. Don't apologize to her about what went wrong, ur giving her the power. An idea, tell her 'our next adventure is going to be so much fun'

Thanks guys!

Called her today, she was open and showing interest.

Told me to text her when i was around in town again

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Haha I must say, this is a funny story! It sounds like she is fine with seeing you again and I don't think you did anything too wrong. I don't see the need to lie and have a friend call or anything like that, telling her you had an upset stomach was the right thing to do. And maybe not making out at the end of the night kept her guessing, you can make up for it just fine next time you see her!

It reminds me of a story of a first date i was on. The girl put on a comedian, and I laughed at one point, and ended up farting so loudly. It was completely embarrassing but we laughed about it later! Well good luck on your next date!

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