I do not consider myself someone who is getting into full-fledged pick up artistry, I am just looking to date around a bit. I wrote a life-plan a few days ago to get the life I want, and one of the areas that I was the least satisfied in was relationships in dating.

To make a long story short, I receive a lot of negative energy from the women in my life, especially those that are close to me. About half of my girls that I have befriended have told me to my face that they could never date me, in a very serious tone. In some cases, it came up out of the blue when they were drunk. I also remember a two occasions where my girls that are friends told me to never date their friends, in which they sounded very protective of them.

I feel like I am actually below the "dreaded" area known as the friend zone. Because when you are the friend zone, the girl usually at least acknowledges that you are a decent guy and maybe sets you up with one of their friends etc.

Now it may seem obvious was to do - just ditch these girls and move on, don't be so reactionary.

I considered that but then I realized that all of these girls are pretty much respectful towards EVERYONE else but me. This gives a cue that it is something that there must be something I am doing to give them this attitude towards me. The frustrating thing is that I cannot find a reason. Period. I Am beginning to honestly feel like it is is because I do not have a good enough "presence". I look young for my age and do not give a "macho" vibe out, which could make myself an easy target for girls. Yes, girls. I feel like I am living a surrealistic life where I get AMOG'd by girls. And only girls; I get along great with guys and make friends very easily as well as get respect.

I considered at one time that it was because of some things I have done that have displayed immaturity at some point. However, I then realized that I have not done more than the usual person my age in "reckless and immature things".




Half the time I feel like I am living in the movie "mean girls".


So I ask you guys, what is the number one reason why girls would give a protective, condescending vibe towards a guy in relation to dating if the guy and girl have been friends for a while?

Quick question.
Your a cool guy that doesn't do anything to bad and pretty normal? They are super mean to you and treat you like shit for absolutely no reason?

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Getting the Hang of things

Well, here is a good way to explain it.

Everyone messes up and is disrespectful sometimes but they change and make up for it. I do the same but it does not seem to change their opinions towards me. It doesn't matter if I am genuinely nice or not. It does not make a difference.