I'll keep this brief.

Other night me and a buddy go dt to shoot some pool. Not drinking much, we end up sitting next to 2 cuties at the bar. I start talking to the one next to me, soon enough 4 of us are chatting. Mine is showing IOIs as is my wingman's. We go out for a smoke, the one IM WITH starts getting a bit distant, but her friend assures me to "go flirt with her". OK. I go back in, ask her to come to the bar for a drink
I don't normally buy them drinks but tonight I didn't give a fuck, and I needed to isolate her from her friends (4 more girls!).
So we're at the bar and she starts giving me huge IOIs (drink was a good idea )
She tells me I'm tricky and hard to get.
She tells me I'm cocky, and "it works".
I tell her I'm working really early.
She mentions going back to her place.
Anyhow long story short, me and buddy end up walking these 2 back to their place. Now, on the way there, I go for a kiss, and something happens.
She now says she has a fiancee?!
I'm in such a cocky/funny mood that I laugh it off and tell her its good roleplay, she laughs and we keep on flirting big time. We get to her place, shes acting weird. I hesitate to go in, but her friend says to do it. At this point, why not.
So I go in, shes in her room, I go in there, sit on the bed, and shit comes to a grinding HALT.
Shes like "I can't do this" but has the look in her eyes like she wants to be fucked hard. So I persist.
Long story short, NO GO! She stone-walled me pretty fucking good, I must admit. I've never been denied like this before, it was WEIRD!
I had told her previously that I was gonna text her in the morning when I was at work to wake her up and bother her kinda thing as a joke, she said she would really like that.
So now I'm all wierded out, I'm basically leaving like a chump, and worse part is she doesn't respond to my well crafted text the next day.
So fuck this girl, who needs her.

But my concern is the lessons to be learned here: I need boyfriend destroyer training!
Anyone with any experience in this type of situation care to lend some wisdom?

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i understand what you went thru man..but hey, challenge is always good..

not very sure bout the bf destroyer tho, i know what is like to be dumped by a women for another man..and it SUCK big time..

You can't factor everything in.. sometimes you can do something exactly by the book (and your previous experience) and still end up with nothing. You can't win em all.. if you could, it wouldn't be a game

She realized that she was about to cross the line and cheat on a man she loved.

I respect women like that. They make good friends, and can always hook you up with some of their cute friends.

(I actually say that to them.)

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you guys are right, good advice

I respect a girl like that as well, even though I've been told by women that I shouldn't feel guilty for fooling around with a girl who's got a bf, its "her fault"
none the less, lessons learned, and good for her

I would still like to know some bf destroying techniques, if not for a laugh then to use for those times when you just don't give a fuck

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Most BF destroying routines/techniques I've seen basically boils down to a mixture of ignoring it/praising him. Never criticize him, that will trigger her 'defense mode'. Don't say stuff like "your boyfriend sounds like a lame-ass, you should be with me instead". Instead say things like "he sounds great, I bet he never misses a chance to throw in a compliment or give you a nice gift.. I'm terrible at stuff like that, I'd probably give you an old sock on our anniversery". Joke about it and make her think about his faults by praising him. Make it obvious (without actually saying so) that you are a better and more interesting guy... who could easily just walk away as fast as you came into her life. (fear of loss) At the same time, continue throwing her attraction switches and generally treat the whole thing as a minor matter (like you did!). But even armed with some solid strategies and making her want you like crazy you will still fail at times. Some girls can be drooling all over you and still choose the safe ground of their current relationship over the adventure and excitement of hooking up with a really awesome guy they just met. For some people, principle is more important than temporary feelings. I'm like that.. I'm monogamous because I've chosen to be that. Not because I don't find other girls attractive... there are attractive girls everywhere! But I'm building something more serious here with a wonderful girl, and it would take a hell of a person to make me abandon that. Instant attraction and adventure isn't enough.