So I met up with my buddy John day before yesterday. We've been out a few times sarging - he's pretty good but he's got one of those 'complicated' gf relationships he's dealing with. Basically, he only wants to go out when she pisses him off. The result isn't all that great: He's either frustrated, or he's down in the dumps. Not a great frame.
So John and I are getting ready to head out when his friend Bobby calls. He asks if it's cool if he hangs out, and I'm fine with it. Bobby *just* got out of the Marines.
Bobby walks in, and I'm awestruck. This dude reeks Alpha. Physically, he's an attractive dude, but his attitude is totally 'I don't give a flying fuck'. We're chilling at my place and everything Bobby says confirms what my impressions.
Finally, a decent wing who lives close by.
That night was uneventful, but me and Bobby clicked, so we went out last night. We ended up meeting an ex of his - HB9, whom he said he was no longer interested in... free game. We ended up meeting more of
her friends, and all the sudden, I'm presented with several options. HB7 (HB_Mommy - has 2 kids), totally my type as far as looks go, personality wasn't bad either; and then there was HB8 (HB_Boobs).
We bounce to one of their guy friend's house to play beer pong. On the way, Bobby and HB_Boobs make out in the back of my car. We find out we need cups for beer pong and cigarettes, so we make a pitstop. While Bobby and HB_Boobs go into Walmart to pick up some cups, HB9 (now HB_Hangups) tells me she's still got feelings for Bobby and that HB_Boobs is a slut and she "won't let THAT happen".
Fuck.
I spend the whole night building kino and attraction. She keeps throwing shit tests at me, which bounce off my steel frame... IOI's... maybe this'll work out.
Me and Bobby have a quick huddle to figure out the logistics, and decide to bring HB_Boobs and HB_Hangups back with us to my place. The idea was for him to demonstrate that he has moved on and HB_Hangups should too (with me
).
HB_Hangups all but punches HB_Boobs for wanting to come with us, Bobby got really pissed at her. HB_Boobs stays. Me, Bobby, and HB_Hangups made a stop on the way back for more cigarettes and water and Bobby goes in.
"So do you understand where I'm coming from?" she asks me for validation.
"Yeah, but I think what you did was selfish as fuck. You've lost a lot of respect with me. You know I like you babe, but not if you're going to be like this. There's 2,999,999,999 other women in this world, so I'm sure I can find one who's not going to cockblock their ex because he's hooking up with someone else."
She blabs for a minute, but I'm not paying much attention. Bobby gets back in and we leave. She ends up climbing in back to talk to Bobby, who's still pissed, and ends up kissing it better.
I can't blame him - HB_Hangups is fucking hot, he was drunk as hell. We get to my place and Bobby passes out on my couch. I hand HB_Hangups a blanket and a pillow. "There's plenty of floorspace," I tell her, "take your pick."
She gave me sort of a surprised look that I didn't invite her to sleep in my bed, but I was having none of it. I wasn't butthurt about her 'choosing' him over me at all. I was mad at her for being so selfish.
Too much drama.
I've only known Bobby for 2 days, but he's cool as hell. He'll make an excellent wingman. And being a natural, I'll gain some valuable insight I wouldn't otherwise have had.
CHAT
