ok so here is the story. I knew this girl for like 3 years but never hanged out with her or chilled, i just knew her. Like 2 weeks ago she randomly txted me and we went to the movies. We chilled the whole week without even me asking her to, she just wanted to see me. Theres always kino and she finds reasons to touch me. i know she likes me. She always txts me and calls. but When i tried to hook up with her she pulled away. I dont understand why.

I want to know why she does this and why doesnt she hook up with me?......respond thanks....

Well, she can either just want to be friends with you or she just needs to be
gamed more...

I am going to go with, SHE JUST NEEDS GAMED MORE...

Seeing how you did not post what she said... all you said was that she just
pulled away... did she say anything???

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she didnt say anything she just looked at me and smiled and there was a moment of silence. I didnt try anything later. i just pushed and pulled at times that seems to work on her. she invited me to her party for saturday and im going any advice?

There could be a couple things going on here...I'll list them:

1) she just sees you as a friend (unlikely because she didn't give you the LJBF talk when u made a move am i right?)

2) She's using you to stroke her ego. Girls like it when a guy is into them and it makes them feel good about themselves even when they don't actually intend on putting out. If this is the case, I recomend a freeze out.

3) She's expecting you to work for it/there's something missing. She might not be saying no but maybe "not yet". Now if this is the case and she's into you, u maybe just need to game her more and she'll come around. If not, you could always ask her what her deal is but if she's messing around with you as in option number 2, this makes you look AFC.

So I would recomend you just continue gaming her the way you are and don't make a move again until she gives you a couple IOI's. When you do make a move and she pulls away, kiss her anyway. See what her reaction is and then once you find out what she's playing at, you can respond in kind.

she randomly text!

did she just get out a relationship? just from the info u gave i think so.

she is definitely using u as an ego boost. she is using u as a rebound thing.

dont call this girl let her call u, let her do all the work.

dont call this girl let her call u, let her do all the work.[/quote]

i never called her or txted her first she is always the first everyday for the past 3 or 4 weeks.
Im just not gonna make a move until she gives me more IOIs and ill do something.
I also did a couple of attraction and seduction techniques on her like the cube, and some of the other ones, and she got really close to me, she tells me stuff that she never told anyone else. that clearly shows that she is comfortable with me. she offers me massages all the time..lol does that count as an IOI?
She was in a relationship like months ago even more, and i refuse to believe that she is using me to get back on track.. idk should i?

I want to know why she does this and why doesnt she hook up with me?......respond thanks....

The 3 reasons Sheer mentioned are dead on accurate, but they are also deal breakers, especially number 3. If a woman EXPECTS me to 'work for it' then she's got another thing coming. If you think about it, 'not' putting up the effort will set you apart from the other saps that jump through hoops.

She acts interested, then pulls away and smiles when you take things a step further? Personally, I don't have the patience for these games. If a girl wants to get with you, she WILL. If she doesn't, why sit around trying to dissect the problem when you can move on game someone else?

My recommendation, don't waist another second pondering her intentions, just dump her. Don't respond to her text messages or phone calls. If she wants to hang out, you are busy.

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