Hi guys, can you help me out with an issue i'm having.
I met this chick on a dating website, we have been chatting for more than a week.
I've asked her out on a real life date, but the girl tells me that she wants to spend a long time chatting online before getting to meet someone in RL. So my question to you, how do you build attraction in a chick you met online? She does not seem all that receptive to my advances.
I've wasted a lot of time with a chick i met online before, and i dont think you can judge if a girl is worth all the effort unless you know what she is like in real life.

Thanks

Aside from using a little C&F to make the chatting fun, light-hearted and interesting (which will accomplish the goal of raising her IL), it's very difficult to create any 'real' attraction...you need to get her out in person for that. If she is not receptive to your advances, reconsider your approach.

If she wants to 'chat for a long time', let her, hopefully she will find what she's looking for. You on the other hand have a busy schedule and don't have the time to chat for endless hours about nothing, right?

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