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PostPosted: Sat Feb 21, 2009 11:54 am 
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3 weeks ago i finished reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss in 24 Hrs
and i was able to number close on this girl on a night out with my frds

3 days later i was able to meet up with her
it was all promissing i was able to kiss close her
and the for the next two weeks i got to know her a lot better that she was a cheerleader and a dancer

but in the last week i was able to mess this all up i know it is still early days
but i was too needy and clingy
we use to texted each other everyday right now i am holding back from txting her i know i still have one last chance with her

but i would love to hear your advice on this
how can i carry on playing the game with her


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 6:42 pm 
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Doesn't seem as if that game is going all too well. If you're just getting started in this, you must know it takes practice. Practice on a lot of women till you find out what works for you. Till you find rejection doesn't mean shit to you.

There are techniques to turn this around, but is it worth it? If you invest a lot of effort in something that's not working out so well, it's gonna turn the whole deal into a negative association. ANd every time you try and every time she shuts you down, it'll only remind you that this is not for you.

Fu$k that.

I'd take this as a positive. Dude you scored a cheerleader! Like that part. Think "Freaking front game is online, next just need to work one mid-game. Who my next victim!?!".

Put a smile on your puss and walk. That'll address the needyness too.

Good luck Brotha!


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PostPosted: Tue Feb 24, 2009 6:54 pm 
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Hahahaha you read the game in 24 Hrs and just by using that were able to score a cheerleader soon after.
Your going to get a lot more girls if you keep reading and appyling pua.
Try reading more about confidence an Inner Game and you'll be awesome at this stuff

As far as the girl goes looks like you have one itis. You don't have to give up on that girl but I suggest you find other girls while your with her.

If you want you can keep trying and see where you end up with her, if anything just for the experience.

I remember the same thing happened when I started, I crashed and burn but at the end of it I came out a better person, with a better understanding on relationships. :)

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PostPosted: Sat Feb 28, 2009 5:26 pm 
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yer it has ended lol
i am kinda glad about that cos during "we were going out stage" a few of my mates went clubbing and i needed to go to get into the right head space
and lol on the night i wasn't even trying

i was dancing with a few hot HB 7s to 10s
on was dancing on my knee like a stripper

but my gf was not happy about me going out (yes i didn't tell her about the other girls)

but we are still frds
but right now i am just confused

i am still trying to piece together what did i do right and what did i do wrong


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