I'm not exactly sure why I'm posting, I guess to see if others have felt the same. When I do win the war in my head and take the few physical steps towards the girl thus reaching the point of no return it literally feels like I'm Bruce Willis smashing through a pale of glass in Die Hard. I also tend to get the feeling like I've separated a part of myself that remains rooted in the position I was in. This is a really temporary feeling and I can use an anchor to snap myself back in to the fun, confident guy in a second, it's just such a deep psychological feeling that I'm wondering where it must come from.

Bruice Willis smashing through a glass wall is doing what? He's smashing through an obstacle in his way! Fuck, glass wall? Shit, that's not gonna stop me!!!

I still feel like what you're talking about... freaking awesome feeling, right?

I approach more because the fact that I'm walking up to this hot babe makes me feel like nothing can stop me. It strengthens my frame.

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Welcome to the fear and drive of dying to yourself. In all seriousness, it's a crapload of adrenaline, come to associate that feeling with pleasure and make it empowering. The disconnection from your thinking self, and into the realm of pure doing, IS passing a barrier. Enjoy crashing through life like an unstoppable juggernaut.