Hi everyone.

I'm here not to learn to pick up women but to become a more confident, fulfilled and happy man.

I'm currently experiencing a problem with my girlfriend. Problem in the sense that I feel too "attached" to her. If she is not around, I feel lonely and miserable. I get depressed. And I think I let her walk all over me at times. For example, sometimes if she gets angry she does not pick up the phone or hangs up on purpose. A more confident, self-respectful man would have left the b*tch already.

My question is this...how do I defeat this obsession? How do I overcome the feeling of loneliness? How do I start living again? I feel every relationship I have...I become too addicted, too clingy. Is there a solution? A doctrine?
Thanks everyone.

The only cure for this that worked for me is MEETING OTHER GIRLS.

After being in the game for a long time I have come to one conclusion about defeating your oneitis.

Kiss her goodbye!!

In my afc days I was obsessed by this girl in england (I live in california), I dated her for a short while years ago and of some reason I could never stop thinking about her.

My cure for her, when I was an experienced PUA I traveled all the way to england (no not just for that), found her, kissed her, and said good bye.
If you kiss her and leave you will feel on top! You will feel like you walked out of it as a better man.
The main thing you need to do when you have a oneitis is to cut the strings, I found this easier if I just kissed her goodbye!

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Slywalker

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First off, embrace the pain of being without her. Learn that you can generate and create other relationships with women as you want and enjoy. Adopt what is known as an abundance mindset, because at this point in your life, you can either be a man who was given a fish and some grain, and is afraid of losing his last meal, and preserving desperately the only source of sustenance he has left, or you can learn to fish and farm and generate your own source of abundance and wealth. There are so many lovely, funny, and fantastic women out there who simply want to have sex and/or be in a relationship with you, that you aren't allowing yourself to experience with an impoverished mindset. I am not saying to abandon a woman who means a lot to you, but in all likelihood this relationship WILL NOT last forever, and your entire sense of self should not be wrapped up in one single woman.

^^^Damn that's a sick analogy def going to remember that

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Getting the Hang of things

well, for start dont be ingenuous, remember you could be with other women and you deserve this value

as is known for the puas, its healthy the mindset that you need to know how to let go a little if you're to have her
so, probably what you gotta do is ask yourself, do I want to be an emotional slave for my GF or not? sure you like her and wanna be with her, but you shouldnt let yourself become a emotional slave
for this you need to be a man, if she's acting too much like she owns you and you're a fool for her she'll start to not give value for you, you've gotta start acting like a man and not be complacent with her acts that try to put you in this place down, freeze her when she does it, when she is deserving, you reward her, its really like educating...and them she'll start giving more value to you, if she doesnt and think its absurd that you're requiring more respect it maybe time for puting her love to a test