| First of all I would like to say thanks to the responses on my previous threads, Ill try to make this one more to the point so more people can help me, thanks cant wait to see improvement.
Have problems with HB8's and higher, and girls that like me DLV. Decided to practice with HB5 xgf I dumped and was a huge dick to, not hot at all but a start.
Me: Hey whats up
HB5: nothing, you
Me: nothing at all? gotta be doing something
HB5: well im doing some HW, and really excited
Me: for?
HB5: I am going to blah blah in 3 weeks
Me: cool, what for?
HB5: blahblahblahblah college.
Me: oh thats tight, well you should bring me back something that would be cool.
HB5: I would but I never see you anymore..... I didnt think you wanted to see me again
Me: how do you know, can you read my mind or something?
HB5: Well no just bc of our history and stuff
Me: past is the past
HB5: well your right about that blahblah
Me: pretty much busy this week, after that maybe
HB5: 3 Page text about being friends again I didnt really read
No problem with HB5 but its little risk little reward. With HB9's and 10's whenever I see them my AA is high and I my brain is racing "oh god should I talk to her, what does she think, should I hug her, how does my hair look, should I ignore her, what if she dosent say hi to me" Im sure I look nervous and it sure dosent get me anywhere, even though I try to be funny they probly think im trying too hard. This also happens with girls that I find out have a crush on me, this is where I lose half of my relationshiops before they even start. I read a thread that said if your batting .250 your a good PUA, which i thought most guys were .900 but in reality they are approaching more HBs than just the one their currently with so I guess im not a TOTAL failure like I thought. I just need to get over my AA and trying too hard, its really hard to talk to them like I talked to HB5, maybe if I went to the mall and practiced with HB6's and then worked my way up to girls that are my level, i dunno. Thanks =).
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