Jsmooth hit it when he talked about frame.
Reverse the values man.
''You think im going to let you get it dont you''
''woooooooo im not that easy''
As for your closing problem, I suggest sinns finest
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The Almost Kiss.
Knowing how and when to kiss a woman can be a really difficult task when you're first starting out. I, myself actually spent an entire month once trying to makeout with every girl I started talking to. This is how you develop an intuition for when to go for a kiss. I highly recommend that you guys try this sometime. Especially if you have a tendency to go on great dates or have 20 minute conversations in bars or clubs that lead nowhere. It can be scary at first but you'll learn when to go for it, and when to lean back and build more tension.When to kiss a woman is a whole nother topic that could probably use it's own newsletter.
The Almost Kiss is a great technique because it actually gets the girl to kiss you first, most of the time. I'd say in the 80-90%, range if you do it right. It also helps build a huge amount of sexual tension. I've seen some other versions out there floating around but this will be the original one I learned from Future.
Without further Ado, here's how you use The Almost Kiss routine.
First you should have been talking to the girl for at least 25 minutes. Kissing(especially in clubs) is not a big deal and can happen almost immediately if attraction is there. However, you don't want to kiss her too soon because she may regret it later.
Second you need to make sure you are having a one on one conversation with the girl. It's a bad idea to try to do this in front of her friends, as it makes her look bad. If you need an excuse to get her away from her friends try saying this. " I'm gonna go get another drink at the bar. Keep me company."
Then while she's talking you need to interrupt and say something like this " Hey, I'm really sorry, but I'm having a REALLY hard time paying attention to what you're saying. I'm really just thinking about kissing you. And I know we're not ready for that , but here's what we're going to do. We're going to do an almost kiss."
Now, here she will probably ask you what an almost kiss is. Explain that the two of you are going to get as close as possible without kissing. Ideally you should be able to feel her breath on your lips when you do this.
Before you actually go in for the almost kiss, you need to make her pinky swear she's not going to kiss you.
Hold the almost kiss for 2-3 seconds and then lightly and playfully push her away and say " That's all you get!"
Here's where the genius comes in. After the first time you do an almost kiss, you go back to normal conversation. Then 5,10 or 15 minutes later you tell her you're ready for another almost kiss.
The second time the girl will almost always break and kiss you first. The sexual tension just becomes unbearable to the girl, so she releases it by kissing you first. That's why I love this routine, because when the girl kisses you first she thinks it's her idea. Plus it takes all the guess work out of when you have to make a move.
So the next time you're stuck and don't know when or how to kiss a girl, try an almost kiss. She might just kiss you first.
Talk to you soon V1V,
CHAT