Here is the thing. Say I stop jerkin-the-chicken. After three days I notice a HUGE improvement on my conversational skills with women. I become funnier, wittier and smoother in ALL of my communication. This will continue for a week or more at which point I may decide it's all coincidence and get my rocks off either by the women I took home or by myself. Either way, it sets me back to square one again! and for about two days I sound like a mumbling fumbling buffoon!

In "Think and Grow Rich" Dale Carnegie talks about sexuality and how some influential leaders in the past have been known for being very sexual. Could there be some connection? And if so, where does one strike a balance?

Maybe you are wonking your wonker with the wrong wronking hand. Seriously, many groups believe that you must keep your body in balance. Keep your body balanced with your chi. That is why when you meditate you often try to find your balance via your head and back. Why wouldn't wonking be any different?

Maybe you are right hand dominant? Always wonking as a righty. Why not try becoming a switch hitter. Spray the ball to different parts of the field.

If you don't believe in centering and chi maybe it is time you just quit wonking. Two days of being a bumbling fool a week seems terrible.

Have you thought about multiple wonking sessions a day? Maybe that would break through some mental barriers you have put up? Maybe wonk at a new time. Become a morning wonker instead of a nightie wonker. There is always lunch hour as well if you want to be an afternoon kind of wonker.

Masturbation is useful and a great way to relieve stress, and feel happier, more positive in general. This is an attractive quality. Artificially limiting your masturbation more than you personally fell comfortable doing, will only make you grumpy, and short tempered needlessly. There is some benefit to curtailing your masturbation to 2-3 days or so, and that is a little bit of a sexual edge can motivate you to get out there, and plow some women.