mk, i met an awesome chick at a club saturday night, i was approaching so many girls that i forgot what i opened with but we ended up getting on very well, very similar interests and i kept the negging up and dropped in a few IOIs sometimes

her friends took her away from me but i have her number, didnt even kiss close

whenever i get a number from a club though it never goes anywhere. ever. i only have seem to f close on girls that i get introduced to through friends or that i meet at a party. The best I can ever get at clubs is a make out.

SOOO, what i would like is a good way to game her through an openign text, considering I got her number saturday night and it will be a wednesday night by the time i read any response to this.

everything i try when trying to reconect with chicks i number closed from clubs seems to fail. i can easily get 3 or 4 numbers in a night but cant get it to go anywhere D:

tried calling chicks, tried texting, tried getting the msn (sometimes i get it but then it doesnt really go anywhere)

PS just so u can get my frame I have managed to close some amazing girls but its always through being introduced by a friend or meeting them at a party where i have social proof.

A good way to lower your chances of flaky girls is to actually have plans when number closing, otherwise you're just some guy she met in a bar once.

BAD: so give me your number and I'll call you sometime

GOOD: Tell you what, give me your number and I'll maybe take you surfing with me this weekend.

Also, don't just indiscriminantly make time for her, but I'm sure you already knew that.

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I don't know how long you've been approaching women. I only know you have 7 posts. So if some of the stuff I suggest seems basic to you then that's why. But then again most of the game is in the fundamentals.

If the girl was taken away from you by her friends. Then you need to spend more time befriending the obstacles. Also, you might need to brush up on how to handle internal and external interruptions from a set. That way you can get more time with your target.
The better option here would be for you to build more comfort. Actually create a connection with her so you are more likely to talk to her later. She might be attracted to you but without some actual "connection" you aren't going to go very much farther than you are getting. Spend more time with the girl. If you aren't doing this consistently work to get more isolation with your target.

Also, the secret to getting day 2's or dates is setting them when you meet her. You have this girl you just met, you get her to be insanely attracted to you, you build comfort with her. She's riding the emotional roller coster and is at a peak. Ask for the day 2 then, when you're more likely to get it. Then when she's cold on the valley of that same roller coaster days later. You'll get better results this way.

Another tip is to try to # close after you kiss. This will help as well.
The tips above should really help you out. Focus on really building a connection and not just talking about shared interests like most guys do. Spend more time in set, and get isolation when possible. Kiss close before # close. Finally, while she's excited plan the Day 2 on the spot.

This is much easier than working the phone or text for the Day 2 later.

Hope this helps you out man. Any questions about this stuff just PM me.

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Don't call unless you have a reason.

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JSmotth is oh so right, "Ask for the day 2 then, when you're more likely to get it." Because once you leave the club and not communicate with her for a few days, she will start forgetting you and what a cool guy you were that night. If she is a beautiful girl, then she will 100% meet new guys in the time that you have failed to come in contact with her. So try to set something up when you have built comfort and have found something in common, or you can bring something up. Like you have to go shopping for a present tomorrow and that you want her to go with you, then you get her number, and the day2 is already set up that night, while comfort building.

thanks guys, great advice

im going out tonight, lets see what i can do

GOOD LUCK

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GREAT SUCCESS

was the driver tonight so couldnt drink much
first approach i opened then couldnt think of anything to say, the girls were't interested so i wandered off. then i had 3 jager bombs to get pumped.

2nd approach, the girl was interested and i made smalltalk with her friends a little bit "sorry about leaving u out of the conversation" introduced myself to them, being very nice to the obstacles "how much are you girls paid to hang out with ur friend (wink)"

had to dance floor with girl then take her for a tour of the club coz it was her first time there then we went back to the downstairs D floor.
THEN SHE BLEW ME OFF, she was like "go hang with ur friend" and i was like "i will bring him here" and she says "nah just hang with him"
so i totally bail without another word and find my friend and start dancing around upstairs on top of the boxes

20 mins later she comes up and finds me, we go back downstairs and she is like "i am tired and dont feel like dancing"
so i say "would you like to kiss me?" she nods her head and we make out a fair bit, then talk for a while, getting on really well. then back to the kissing. she is all huggy and wants me to stay longer but i drove my friends car there and cant just bail on him in his own car.

so then like you guys said I got her number (after the kiss close) and I agreed to come back next week and she is like "you are so cool, so glad to meet you, cant wait till next week". and im not driving next week and i dont have work the next day like i do tomorrow (i live in perth AUS if these times dont make sense.

so yeah all worked out nicely. thanks so much for the advice

Very welcome. Congrats!

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whether you're driving or not, you still shouldn't drink that much

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