what im telling below is the 2nd meet up between me and this chic i met at a club a few weeks beforehand, we had spoken on msn a little and got pretty good repore there. i just want some opinions and ideas.. thanks.


last night was a decent night... i could only stay til just before 12, and she came late so we only chilled for about 40 minutes...(i was sargin beforehand)

i was sure to give her a nice big hug (and pick her up off the ground) as soon as i saw her. we talked for a little outside, and then she looked as if she wanted to hit the bar so i suggested that we go to the bar, i told her that i would buy her a drink if she bet me in a thumb wrestle... she cheated... but part of me would feel like an ass not buying her one after mentioning it... i had my arm around her, and some light kino by this stage...so i did(end up buying the drink that is) , but i dont feel i really broke the cardinal rule... we had met before, it wasnt an approval seeking thing it was just a nice gesture in my eyes.

she is a real cutie! omg is she cute! one of both of or favourite songs come on "you got to show me love" and i say... dancefloor (she had a freind with but she seemed to approve of me) so i hekld her by the hand and led her there... lost her hand somewhere in the mix through all the people but she still followed and i didnt regrasp as to not look needy... we get to the dancefloor and its packed so just because of that she is actually a little to the left of me... we'd word the lyrics to eachother a bit, and i was gettin down with some people in front of me... showing that the show is me ... and not her, lol.

after 2 songs she kind of signals to her freind something... and i thought yep, that means outsied... so i say, lets go outside (as if it was my idea... haha) however i kind of followed her, i think there was a reason why i let her go in front i dont know... but the following was perhaps a tad chodish (but im sure the occasional chodish behaviour wouldnt ruin it all) and spoke for a bit... i told her i had to go and she protested against it... but in the end, i end up huggin her nice and tight and tellin her to give me 'some sugar' and i angled my cheek at her... i couldve gone the full kiss close maybe but i still felt we hadnt been around eachother quite long enough for that to work... she made sure to show me the secret handshake before i left... lol.

as I am walking to the bus i get a msg "you should have stayed... you should have stayed!" and im thinkin, theres an IOI... but my issue now is, i dont want it to fall into the freindzone at all... now im not 100% sure where shes at but if i were a betting man id say we have similar vibes and id say shes into me. but now i want a proper day out with her... now its just about figuring out where when and what!
how do i make sure it doesnt slip into the freindzone?

The thumb wrestling for the drink was a nice touch... it was not chodish by
buying her the drink since you did say if she won you would, cheating or not.

To not have it slip into the friend zone, you need to do KINO and at the least
go for the "non-friend kiss" close... Non-friend kiss is give her the tongue and
make it real effin' kinky/sexy.

If you can make her get turned on by kissing her, then she will be yours.

In order to not have something not turn into a LJBF relationship, you must
do things that a boyfriend would do...

Think and act like you are already her boyfriend... keep up the confidence and
being the alpha male as you did when you met her at the club... keep that
mindset and you are well on your way to getting what you want.

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Evolution Phase Shift

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Every Saint has a Past, Every Sinner has a Future

EVOLUTION PHASE SHIFT:

Lean in and tell her she smells good. Ask her what perfume she's
wearing, then start discussing how animals always sniff each other before
they mate and how we're evolutionarily wired to feel aroused when
someone smells us.

Then discuss how lions bite each other's mane during sex, and how
pulling the back of the hair is another evolutionary trigger. As you speak,
run your hand up the back of her neck, grab a fistful of hair at the roots,
and pull it firmly downward.

If she's not upset, push further... Tell her how the most sensitive parts of
the body are usually hidden from contact with the air.
EXAMPLE: Where the arm bends at the other side of the elbow crease on
the opposite side of the elbows. (it will give her chills).

After that... tell her, "But do you know what the best thing in the world is?
A bite.. right.. here." Point to your neck. Then tell her, "Bite my neck." If
she refuses, turn away calmly to punish her. Wait a few seconds then
turn back around and repeat it, "bite my neck." She will/should.

No matter how good it feels, tell her, "That's not how you bite. Come
here." Sweep her hair aside, give her a good bite on the neck, and
instruct her to try again. This time she "DOES" a great job.

Smile approvingly and say, very slowly, "Not bad." Then KISS HER... she
is ready and willing.. NO FEAR!!!

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