ok guys, here's my encounter/story:


a brief introduction of this girl, X:
she's the same age as i am (19 yrs old). she was from the same college as i am. but i only started to chat her up online in msn recently for a month or two. i loved teasing her. lol her replies were 'play hard to get' kinda. two weeks ago in a conversation with her online, i got to know that she has a bf, but they were taking a break or having a timeout. ok now to the story..


last saturday night. i went to meet my friends for dinner before we were gonna head to club. at around 7pm during dinner, i texted her:
(some parts are different cos i cant really remember the exact words)
me: hey, wanna join me and my friends to club tonight?
X: sorry. i've to study.. exams coming soon
me: my friend's gonna treat us drinks.. ur gonna miss out alot girl
X: stop tempting me! you guys enjoy yourself
me: lol okay. i can accompany you to study after i'm done tho
X: really? i dun think so..
me: really la.. i call u after i'm done.
X: okay.. what time?

then i didnt reply her til we got into the club. my friend opened 3 bottles. we drank on the rocks. lol i was getting drunk den i msged X again

me: i think i'm gonna get drunk anytime
X: stop drinking already!
me: my friends kept forcing me to drink. u better take care of me later
X: dun worry, i'll handle you..
me: wah later you rape me
X: who wanna rape u? lol
me: whats ur address?
X: *gives me her address* tell me when your coming over

then i went to puke lol. my friend then escorted me to a cab and i told the driver to go to X's address.

then i texted her
me: i'm coming over now
X: okay.. let me go prepare. do you need some plain water?
me: yea okay.. that'll be great
X: okay. give me 10 mins

when i reached, i waited downstairs for a while then she came down. it was ard 12 am in the morning already. so we went to a place to get our tickets to watch movie. the movie's at 2 30am. it was 1 plus am when we bought the tickets. i was quite tired and she noticed and said she wanna buy a magazine to read while i can take a short nap before the movie begins.

after buying the magazine, we went to a flight of stairs and sat down. she offered me to rest my head on her shoulder. i did, although i was kinda shocked when she offered me her shoulder. after that i took a quick nap. i woke up several times in the middle and i saw her messaging another guy i think. i saw the msg from the guy saying something like he like her alot.. then she replied something like: drink lots and lots of water and sleep early. i didnt know what was happening. but IMO, it might be her bf or another guy. not too sure about that. then i went back to nap.

its 2 20am, she woke me up and we walked to the cinema and got to our seats. during the movie, there were some 'surprise scenes' where she grabbed onto my arm tightly. when more of these 'surprise scenes' occur, i slowly held her hand and also caressing her thighs. when the movie ended, i sent her home. during the cab ride to her home, i rested my arm on her left lap. her left arm was resting on her right thigh. was kinda awkward there. anyways when we reached her address, i sent her up and we said goodbye to each other. i forgot to kiss close cos i was too tired from the drinking..


thats what happened. i think she's a fun girl to be with and i'm considering getting her to be my gf. what do you guys think? or any tips/opinions/comments to share?



i'd love to hear from you guys soon!
thanks

I think that you shouldn't drink anymore.

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I think you should at least tone it down a little. If you puke from drinking too much, you're over doing it. I have no clue why she was so cool to a drunk. Maybe she has a fetish for that sort of thing, I dunno...

However, I'm of the belief that every once in a while, getting drunk is good for you. Not to the point of hangover, but to the point that you fall right to sleep once your head hits the pillow. I've rarely had positive responses from women when I'm like that, however.

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fyi to everyone : i wasnt drunk when i met her.. i've already recovered from the drunken state after puking. so i'm fully awake before meeting her.

Being drunk (or being in recovery after a bout of alcohol) is not a good look and most chicks actually find it a complete turn off.

Honestly ask yourself if you are using alcohol as a crutch because that level of drinking/drunkenness suggests that something is NQR.

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if thats what u guys gonna say to me. i dun think u need to reply cos it aint helping. thanks

Doesn't seem to me like you're "in" at all.
If you have been chatting her up for months and still haven't gotten her mabye you should consider the possibility that she wasnt playing "hard to get" but instead was just rejecting you?

Look's like you're in the friend zone pal >: D

I suggest dropping the idea for a while and move onto another girl or completely change the way you talk to her.
I've been in the same situation mutiple times and the best advice i can give is stop liking her. Its WAY harder getting girls that you have feelings for because most rules of game are accidentally thrown out the window.

Try some boyfriend destroyers that you can find on this site.
But i think your main problem is being alpha. You gotta be alpha dude.
Then again i didn't get too much information from your post but hey this is the advice im giving you.

oh icic.. yea i'm trying to work this out.. thanks for the advice. i'll work on being an alpha male asap. really thanks for the advice rushy

this one girl

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