What up..

I met a girl HB9...hung out with her...did extreme kino...grinding in club and almost kising.....I proposed a date after second time I spent with her....she wanted to hang out...so I said saturday night because friday I'm busy with friends birthday party....she was like yeah...I called her that week thuRsday to make suRe and get her address. She was with friends and wanted to know what time but then I think she told me shell call me back...and then she said I'll text you....oR maybe she told me call/text her but idk I did not understand and I was like cool peace.....

Saturday came and no call...so I went out instead to kick it...I texted that night saying what shes doing and no Reply...so the next day I text her and still no Reply so I texted her saying......sRy bout Saturday i left my phone in friends car night before and I didn't get it till sat night.....its been like 8-9 days since that happened.....so I'm thinking is she just being flaky or did I fuck up cause maybe she wanted me to call heR?....I left a text so she knows I hit heR up and its up to heR...now I know I'll see heR again at the same club so should I just text heR one last time?

Feeze out for a few weeks

If you see her out, say hi but don't linger

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Sounds to me like you are thinking too much.

Last time a girl tried to flake on me I sent her a text, no repsonse. After an hour I phoned her up, she answered and I told her it was unaceptable not to reply to my text. Next, boom we had sorted out the date. Texting is so much harder to get anything sorted. Phoning is more nerve racking but gets the job done
If she had not have answered i would have freezed her out for a few weeks then tried again.

A couple of mistakes you made. Firstly sent too many text which seems desperate. You asked her a question which is never a very good idea, try to make statements instead. Also you apologiesed to her for a situation she created. Never apologies unless YOU have done something wrong.

So take KristallNachte advice and freeze her out.

pedro is absolutely right.
texting gets zero accomplished for setting up a date....

.....other than showing your afraid to call her.

its just like breaking up over text, just a big no-no.

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Freeze out...what do you mean...like not contact her for like 2 more weeks? or somthn....

basically, and if she tries to contact you, ignore the first attempt

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OK, i Ran into heR in the club this fRiday. She recognized me and called me out, I smiled and looked surprised and huged her...she looked happy...I told her i'm here with friends and let her go and went towards my friends....later on she was dancing close to where I was trying to tease me...

I ignored her...acted like I did not see her. ....my friend wanted to dance with her friend so I went up to her pulled her towards me and she was ready to dance hinting to grind with her...but I was like hey get your friend to dance with my friend ....but then she was like I have to find her so i lety her go and I might have ticked heR off but its cool...later I saw her dancing with a guy close to me...i'm thinking she wanted to make me jealous...she looked at me but I was laying back....like so what....I was walking I didnt even see heR and she shoved me with her hand on my shoulder and I shoved back...(its was a light tap)

Anyways...her best friend knows my friend...and they talked in the club (my friend plays 4 MLS chicago fire) so he is DHV....we left the club..i called up the chick to see if anythings going on...no answer...my friend texted the other girl...she texted saying theres an afterparty...he asked if him and I could come....she texted yeah....we got to the street were it was but we could not find the house...and she was not texting back sso I texted the her friend (the one I hung out with) saying whats the address.we outside....

Anyways...she doesnt text back so i'm like fuck...this is gay...we left....the next day we find out they had a car accident...anyways they are having a birthday party this weekend and my friend was invited a while back...hes gonna find out what day......that giRl is def gonna b there...I want to go...but it might b weird...

any suggestions????????