If there is a moment in the movie where it just seems like the right time, i'll make a move and let you know how it goes.

Well guys im back with bad news.....

I had a great night tonight with this girl, we went out to see her horses, and watched a movie together, but i didn't make any moves...Why?...you ask...? fear of rejection, thats why.

So when i got home, i finally got the balls to tell this girl that I was interested in her beyond friends, she backed off and was shocked...i guess im too shit deep in best friend zone that anything beyond that isn't something she wants.

All in all, i fucked up confronting her about it, and pretty damn sure that it's going to make things awkward between us and effect our friendship...which was really the last thing i wanted to do.

But...on the bright side? I'm still in the game...plenty of other fish in the sea

That's a great outlook!

Since she didn't say "Aww that's really sweet but I think we should stay friends" I'm thinking you might have a shot.

What I would do from here is just cool it with her for a little. Say hi to her at work or whatever but make no extra effort for her. Don't ignore her either. Be flirty with other girls around her. Show her what she's missing out on.

If this ends up working and you get another shot with her, screw your fear of rejection and just go for it.

If it doesn't, like you said before, there's plenty of other girls out there. Good luck!

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I'll explain a bit more about whats going on

Today...me and her went to her friends place...we played cards, and i was getting so many IOI's i thought.

I sat down on the couch....she went to sit down and i moved my feet out not letting her on the couch, she gave me an evil smile and we ended up play fighting and eventually we were both laying on the couch side by side........Huge IOI? I thought so...

Alot of kino between us, alot of play fighting and arguing...flirting

Here's where i think i fucked up...bad...

What i did was i sent her a text telling her that i had feelings for her.....her responce was word for word "lol I wasn't expecting that" and i ended up calling her and it was fucking awkward...like nothing i've ever experienced before... but i have no idea why, i just didn't know what the hell to say and i'm kicking myself for it.

This girl i saw as great girlfriend material, all the exact qualities i was looking for, too bad she wasn't looking for anything but friends apparently......her loss in the end.

If you are getting IOI, then she might just feel comfortable around you
and you might have already been placed into the LJBF's zone. When girls
put you into the LJBF's place, then they don't have to keep up their guard,
because they don't see you as someone they will let into their pants.
And then this happens???

Hmm. My girl friends and I do this shit all the time. Everyone does like to
have fun bro... we just choose different ways to express our personality.

If she feels comfortable doing this with you, and you ARE NOT getting into
her pants... you might as well move on and find that OTHER FISH.
Can you say "FRIEND"...
There are more girls out there with the qualities that you are looking for.
Don't ever give up bro... your ONE PERFECT GIRL is out there waiting for
you to find her.

NOTE: If FEAR is holding you back, check out another one of my posts...
overcoming-fear-vt38691.html

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Hey man, I totally understand how you feel. I know it sucks to be in the friend zone but it happens.

But I still think you have a chance. I've had a similar experience before where I liked a girl for a long time, we were really good friends and I finally told her that I had feelings for her--she completely rejected me and said she didn't like me that way--but I kept hanging out with her and one day we made out and she became my girlfriend. I dated her for over a year and then dumped her bitch ass when I got tired of her. But the point is, there are many ways to win over a girl, just because you initially fail doesn't mean that she'll never start falling for you.

I wouldn't give her that much attention if I were you though. Don't end up hurting yourself with emotions.

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