I'm still really new to this...

I can open and carry into number closes with damn near every set I open now. The problem is If I'm lucky one in 10 actually show interest the next day or text day etc...

I always try to make a lasting joke while in the set or give a nick name to the target which they almost always reply with one for me. I use them as a opener for the text's but response is terrible..

How can I better my game so they don't flake?

You can do a few things. The main thing is spend more time with the targe and build comfort. If you can make sure to get isolations / instant dates. These things really amp up the comfort levels, making it more likely for her to call you back.

Then she doesn't have the thought of. I'm attracted to him but we really just chit chatted, I don't know much about him. This is going to be an awkward date. She'll be thinking. He's cute, and we had a lot in common, I can't wait for him to call.

Another tip is sometimes I would kiss close before getting the number. That makes it more solid as well.

Hope the quick tips help you on your way.

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You might wanna read the

Gunwitch method. (google it)

It's an interesting take on the number closing game.

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example..i was out at the weekend. built up good attraction then i say you should take my number i'm going to a jazz club tomorrow. she say i have no phone... so then i say, sure give me your number, then she says she doesn't know it because shes new in the country. so she says take my email. so i give her my phone to write her email in and she does...

then i email her and no reply and i know its her right email coz i googled her and found her...

fail ! and at this stage i'm just loosing interest in the hole game.....

Not enough comfort established. Plus after you asked once you should have let it go. Instead we look needy by asking for it again. Then go a step further and ask for her email. That's her just being polite in giving you that.

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"You might wanna read the

Gunwitch method. (google it)

It's an interesting take on the number closing game."


Just got done reading this and absolutely loved it. Thank you for the sugestion, that let helped me realize alot of things that I was doing wrong. I think I'm number closing fast and not building any kind of lasting image for them to want to talk to me after the fact.



This place has opened me up to a whole new level of understanding and really has helped me with applying things to my own practices... I'm starting to love this life style an strive to get better daily.. Thanks again

Cool.

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