Got #-close.

Now she'll see if she can come to my house so we go there together.

Now it's wait and see.

WTF? She flaked.

She said if she could go she would call me. She didn't call me.

Tell us what your last texts were, have you spoken to this girl before?

If not, why not? Remember if you're going to meet her, you need to speak to her before. Online game just won't cut it at this stage. Just because she said she was gonna call you means fuck all, SHE was expecting YOU to call her. Remember, girls say one thing and mean another. From an evolutionary stand point, it is always going to be hard for her to call you first! And remember she's probably playing hard to get as well...

If you didn't ring her, to fluff, confirm things etc, THAT is where you went wrong.

_________________
*Justice renders the WEAK his due*
My Journal
here-vp445642.html#445642

Read this phrase over a few times. . . men should never say these words. Always lead the conversation to an end where you hold the key. If anybody is going to be doing any waiting, it should be her, sitting at home, waiting for your call.

Ok man, in general, if things go pear now before you meet up its easy for her to change her mind. Like said above, it just takes one failed shit test for her to change her mind.
However if she's infornt of you its a lot more difficult to just walk away so I would try arrange to meet somewhere as soon as possible, although dont let her see your urgency.

I wouldnt worry about screwing it up too much, looks like the force is strong enough in you to know what to do right. She's nibbling on the line man, reel her in.

_________________
Peace, Finchy!

Well, I called her to confirm. She looked happy to hear my voice and asked if that was my number and she would write it down. She also said "you know I can't keep a commitment". And she said that she would call me back if she would go.
She didn't call me back.

What annoys me is when she says "I can't keep a commitment.". It's almost as saying "I'll keep you waiting, but I won't go.".

Yesterday I left a message "You lost the show. It was great.".

And today morning she replied "Because you don't know what happened to me. ¬¬"

And I asked "What happened?".

Now waiting for her reply.

What should I do now? Listen to what she has to say and if it's a real problem that occurred try again? Listen to what she has to say and completely cut off contact with her?

I'm confused, because it seems she likes me a lot but at the same time doesn't look like wanting to see me.

I'm thinking about writing something like this after she replies: "Well, I think it'll never work with us. It was nice to talk to you though." and stop entering MSN for a few days. If she has any liking for me she'll probably call me.

What do you think?

Here is her excuse for not going out with me:

HB says:
I went out with my (girl)friend at afternoon
HB says:
I couldn't enter at my house because I had no keys
HB says:
completely forgot
HB says:
when I went to my house it was 3 am
HB says:
I couldn't enter and we were by taxi
HB says:
and we slept outside the house
HB says:
HAIEUHAEIUHEUIAHEUIEAHUIAE


Do you guys believe it? What now?

You're reading into "play by play" way too much. All of these interactions amount to ONE thing and it ain't good: She's turned you into her "lil' brother".

You know that dumb game you play when you first start driving and you go to your little brother, "Hey Joey, hop in?" When he gets close to the door, you drive forward a bit. He gets pissed, so you say, "OK, OK, I won't do it again. Just get in." Then he goes for the door and you step on the gas again. Why do ALL older siblings do this? Why do little siblings keep going for that door again, again, and again?

You're a natural "little brother". You've got to stop this shit NOW!! When she steps on that gas, just go, "Cool, I have time to do my shit." And walk the fuck away for now. Then the next time you discuss going anywhere, you make sure that YOU are in the driver's seat with the power to step on that gas pedal.

Do not sit there and listen to all her bullshit about why she's being a dick to you. This is her happiness. This is what makes her happy. This is what older sisters do to younger brothers. And you sit there like some little puppy, taking it all in.

Any conversation that has NOTHING to do with advancing your cock into her vagina has to be cut off immediately. So she goes:

hb: I went out with my friend blah bl....

You: Hey, I'm right in the middle of chatting with my buddy from San Fran, I'll call you back. OK?

Or she goes:

hb: You know what happened?

You: Oh shit, I have a call on the other line. I'll call you back

Do not give her these cheap pleasures!! If she wants to hang out with you, she's better drop her panties and bend over like a good little girl. (This is your fucking frame. Got it?) You dictate how you want it, when you want it, where you want it. If she doesn't comply, "Don't waste my fucking time cause I'm already speed dialing 10 other girls." (Of course this isn't how you say it but . . . this is the way you run the show with little bossy, iffy girls.)

Also, I wasn't really a fan of the "challenge" tactic with this case but many people here seemed to like it. She goes, "I'm not coming....." And you go, "Thank God, I thought you'd force me to go. Great! I'll call you another time." Hang the fuck up and -Done. You don't sit there trying to weave this needle in and out of this fruity chick.

These type of chicks are typically the most fun to game. I'm laughing about it now as I write this . . . lol . . .

She stood you up and she has the audacity to laugh about it:

> HAIEUHAEIUHEUIAHEUIEAHUIAE

_________________
*Justice renders the WEAK his due*
My Journal
here-vp445642.html#445642