Hello my name is Robert I am 23 I'll be 24 this Summer

Last year a Co-worker of mine could tell from a mile away I was an AFC recomended me Neil strauss's book. He's what you call a natural as are most of my friends so I've never had anyone to give me real advise other then lose some whight.

They have failed me I never thought I could learn it so I never put effot into it. My mantra was unlucky at love lucky at cards. So I spent most of my life pursuring other games like MMO's gaining levels in that waste of time crap becuase I was convensed you ither had it or didn't.

The PUA community is the first thing that gave light to my dark deppressing AFC life

Months later I was buying some christmas presents for a secrect santa at work and went out on a limb and decieded to buy it. figred it couldn't hurt right till I saw the price tag 35 bucks. I was really tempted to just go home and download it but I knew that if I did that I'd never read it so in the name of self improvment, I bought it. I read 100 pages the first day and knew how obssevie I get with things so backed it off a little bit took me a month to read. Reading it second time right now.

After I was done I was hungry for more so I just started reading everything I could find online. Started going to the bar to sarge a little and refered back to the book to see what I was doing right when I got good responses and wrong when it didn't go well. But it's hard by yourself. No wing man no one to help with all the blockades. ect. No social proof. I started getting in the habit of getting girls to leave places with me and going to other venues that way when i walked in I could still sarge the place with that social proof from when i came in.

I'm a 350 pound guy so right away the first thing I've started to work on was my outter game and inner game. I signed up for a gym lost about 20 pounds so far this year just started learning this stuff a little before the holidays the hardest part of the year for an overwhight fellow

I don't really follow any methods right now other then what I've found online I want to gain a lot of experiance and maybe find a wingman out here in Tucson AZ to help me sarge and keep me motivated working on my outer and inner game.

I love to write, read, play games, listen to music and movies. Mostly pop culture, I love to travel. I really just love everything and living life. I love to cook. I consider myself a 6 on looks and a 9-10 on brains and personality. So I know that if I was in shape I'm a 9 easy and my goal is to get there.

My score is 2 and I hate that about myself almost F-close 2 other times and both times it was because of the same AFC move of not having a condom so now as I saw someone post here I'd pin that thing to my leg before I leave the house. Cause you just never know. I'd say that my ablity to pick up girls even 5's and 6's was maybe a 3 haha but now I feel like cause all the work I've been doing I could full close a 5 or 6 and want to work my way up int the game and build some real skills and make myself into a better person.

I have a lot of questions and need a lot of help and advise expecially with this one girl I'm sarging right now which is why I signed up so I'll be sure to post about it soon and hope you all can help.

welcome aboard.
Congrats on not only your weight loss but on your drive to get better.
If youre ever up in the valley hit me up.

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