OK, interesting story. Singles meetup group had a meetup at a bar I already frequent...the bartenders, waitresses, owner, manager, and some of the other patrons know me. Been flirting with one of the cute waitresses for a couple weeks. She doesn't smile much, but smiles every single time she looks at me, hugs me when I come in, etc.
So, the meetup...I'm a bit loud and funny...came in, warmed up with the new meetup folks who were there quickly (double social proof here...social proof for the waitress from the group, social proof for the group from the bar staff
). Ended up talking and laughing for quite a while with one of the cute single ladies (she's cute, but I'm not really attracted to her, so no interest, just socializing).
So, one of cute waitress #1's (CW1) friends started working there, and she's quite cute too (let's call her CW2). She recognized me from another bar that I've been to once, I didn't even recognize her but certainly liked her smile and batting eyes.
As I walked in, CW2 looked at me, smiled and said "Hey" in a very flirty way. CW1 was standing right beside her at a terminal, knudged her with her elbow, and quietly said "He's mine." (Now, did she mean as a customer or in another sense? LOL) I said said "Hello" to both of them, and asked CW1 "are you gonna fight over me now?". She smiled at the comment. She swiped my card and kept bringing me drinks all night.
So, I flirted with the cutest single ladies in the group, flirted with CW2, and flirted with CW1. CW1 came by after I had put my meetup group nametag on, and said "Gruuve?" (She knows me by my real name.) I said "yes", took my tag off and stuck it on her (she was wearing a tank top, so I stuck it on her belly and rubbed it a few times to make sure it stuck...LOL). She walked around with my name tag on for quite a while. (We are having fun with these nametags, aren't we? LOL). At one point, she made it a point to tell me "You're my favorite customer"...I told her she was my favorite waitress. Her friend CW2 kept flirting with me though.
Then the song "I kissed a girl and liked it" came on the juke box...CW1 was walking around singing along with it the whole time, and smiling at me each time she looked at me. This got me to wondering...is she maybe giving me a little hint or tease there that she might be open to the idea of a threesome with me and her friend? Hmmm...
...I wonder!
I would DEFINTELY be game for that!
Anyway, before I left, we made a date for a Monday night (her only night off) and she gave me her cel#. I think she saw so much social proof and pre-qualification for the singles group and her friend CW2 that she wouldn't have thought of saying "no". I told her to come over, hang out, and we'll have some drinks and maybe do a little hot-tubbing...she said "OK!".
I just have this very cool feeling that at some point, her, I, and her friend *might* end up all gettin' naked together.
Any thoughts about her actions above (specifically, singing along with the song while smiling away at me)? What does it sound like I'm doing right versus doing wrong, if anything? Any guidance on perhaps making this happen appreciated! I think the first step is to get her engaged and naked, then feel out if her and her friend have ever fooled around, then get them both over here to hang out and see what happens!
I'm finding it very amusing that the meetup contributed to me getting a phone number and a planned date BUT that the girl of interest was the cute waitress/bartender rather than one of the singles in the meetup group. LOL!
Cheers!
Gruuve
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