shes prolly like an HB8-8.5. huge knockers and nice body. even though she is my height (5' 8'') and i normally don't like girl that as tall or taller than me. but id like to talk to her but i have 2 issues, maybe you can help me.

it's not the approach that bothers me, i have no problem going up to a girl and opening-it's the mid game that gets to me. sometimes (like today in class for example) i i don't even open because i worry about not being able to continue it past one or two topics. i've looked on here (i an still am) for some mid game help. so in essence i guess you can say my worry/insecurity about my mid game affects my approach.

i can be a really fun, "life-of-the-party", alpha male type guy...when i'm around people i know. i tend to shut myself down when it comes to ppl i dont know.

secondly, this girl comes in and leaves with some kid in the class. he sits behind her. it's evident that they know each other, but i don't know his significance. any help on dealing with this obstacle?

Clearly you like this girl and you've been thinking wayyy to much about how to handle her, that you got stuck. If you don't want to screw up in your mid game, you can play it more save... Don't open her in a surrounding you are stuck with her, like in a classroom.. Wait until you see her at an infodesk or in the restaurant and open her in a way that you can walk away every moment, because you need to be able to leave the conversation as soon you feel you're getting stuck.. Even if things are going well, say that you talk to her later like in class or so.. remember, she is in your class, talk to her in a funny way, act confident, watch your bodylanguage (talk over your shoulder for example) don't give her the idea that you are needy. Make sure she get's a positive first impression of you, so next time in the classroom your 'relation' will be relaxed..
From that moment it's easier to work on building attraction, comfort etc.. the whole mid-game thing

what is the mid game phase you get stuck at?

if you feel anxiety, make sure you are in the good mood.. open a lot of other girls that day so you're in the flow..

and if it doesn't work, don't bother too much, find out where you went wrong and learn your lesson, reduce your anxiety dude!

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Yep I agree with that.

What you could do, is talk to her after class. Just open up, throw in 1 or 2 CF remarks, maybe some negs, and then look at your watch and say, well I gotta go, I've got another class. You could also say that before you open (= (false) time constraint)

Maybe you could open when she's talking to her friend, and open to that guy. Make him your friend if possible.

it's college so i see her every twice a week.

like her? idk about that. ive not formally introduced myself, we haven't talked until last class when she happened to sit next to me (front of the class so really couldn't talk). other laughing at each other's comments about trying to get the professor to let us out early and me saying god bless you for like the 8 times she sneezed during class. we haven't had any direct conversation.

my mid game plan is..(thinking to myself)

ok i'll open with blah blah
but what about after that?
then how am i going to transition into something else?
damn all i can think about is stupid chit-chat about the hw/lesson!
can i keep this conversation going from the class room, down the hall, and to our cars?
if i run out of things to say i can't say i have to go and then walk ahead to my car...
(by then im built up so much shit in my head i don't even go up to talk to her)

all these kinds things go through my head-and its not just with this particular girl. unless im a little buzzed, i tend to ponder what other people's perception of me way too much. very AFC i know. this happens mostly when im by myself.

if i have a wing or i'm a wing, i have no problems because i can feed off others conversation. but i have problems coming up with topics on my own..