hey guys,
i've started to play the game since weeks now and i'm doing better. still struggling with some AA at times but the confidence is growing. i managed to get phone numbers but didn't use it yet, and i'm pretty sure it is too late now. i got a number few days ago and i won't let it slip this time, this is practice time as i'm not usually comfortable on the phone.
i was thinking of lines to come up with for the reactions. such as: "who? i don't remember you", i'm looking for C&F lines to answer that. and what if she can't come on day&time i suggest, what's the best way to handle that? insisting, letting her choose or play hard to get...

what i do is call them up and just ask them what they are doing this week.

They might answer in 2 ways:

1.) say: "umm i dont know" -> NOT GOOD! end the phone call and try a few days later
2.) they will tell you what they are doing and maybe invite you -> i think you know its good

try to keep your calls short, just tell them about somethig you just done. Never have to long convos. the reason is, if you always have long convos when the phone is ringing she will think "oh no this will take a hour again, i just dont answer..." So keep it short!

Nighthawk

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Please don't do it this way. There is a better way. I agree with Nighthawk that you want to keep the conversations short. That is a good rule to follow. You want to get to the point of the call pretty quickly.

If she doesn't know who this is. Then that's somewhat your fault that stems from when we got the # close. She should be waiting for our call. Plus I usually call after about a 24-48 hour wait at the most, and I will send a text to her that day/night I get the # to keep my name in her head.

Anyways, if you call and she doesn't know who it is, you might as well hang up. There isn't any point into saying, "Don't you remember me..." we're qualifying to her and that is no good. Just start over.

You don't ask her for a day and time you suggest one. You are a guy so you have the burden of always leading the interactions. From dancing, to kino escalatation and setting up dates you have to be the leader. It's up to you to know what to do and when.

Basically, you do it similar to this. "XYZ, Sorry I haven't called I've been a little busy with everything lately. Anyways, my friends and I are going to our usual spot on (day) you should come tag along."

-OR-

"XYS, I wasn't able to cal sooner I have been busy with stuff here lately. I'm headed to my favorite place ----- on (day) you should come tag along."

You are first showing you are in demand and busy. Which sounds better than I've been thinking of what to say to you for the past 72 hours sitting here in my house, alone. You get that part I'm sure. Then we say that we are "going" to be at a place.

The idea is simple. If she agrees then great. If she says that she can't go with you in some way, then you can save face. You are going anyways because it's your favorite place or you and you're friends are going anyways. She just gets the "pleasure" of your company and that is how to basically see this.

These will help you out. Fluff talk a bit. Try to tie back to a funny moment when you too talked and met the first time if you can. Then go for the date setup. See what happens. If no. Wait a little bit then try again. I go by the 3 strikes and you're out rule.

In the mean time keep meeting girls and getting numbers. Just put her in the rotation man.

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Been around the world twice, Talked to everyone once...

Next time she calls you answer with

Hello, city morgue. "You stab 'em, we slab 'em"

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Your momma's so fat when she walked past the TV she was going to the kitchen to get cake 'cos she's fat.

"who? i don't remember you"

My response is 'oh, i must have the wrong number, sorry'...then hang up. If she is playing childish games, she'll find a way to keep you on the phone. If not, then you didn't raise her IL enough during the number close, as JSmooth pointed out.

and what if she can't come on day&time i suggest, what's the best way to handle that?

The best way to handle it is to be cool about it, nonchalant. Don't get bent out of shape or start suggesting another time that will be convenient for 'her'. You can say something like 'no problem, maybe we'll get together next week for coffee' and hang up. Call her the following week, if she comes up with another excuse, forget her and move on.

Remember that a phone number means 'nothing' if her IL isn't high. You need to focus more on your confidence and her attraction. The higher her IL the less games and tests you will run into.

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Keep people off-balance and in the dark by never revealing the purpose behind your actions. - Robert Greene